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What Should International Families Look for in an Online Tutor?
Choosing an online tutor for your child can feel surprisingly difficult.
Type “online tutor” into a search engine and you will find hundreds of people offering tuition, promising excellent results, personalised lessons and experienced teaching. But when your child lives overseas, the decision can be a little more complicated.
Perhaps they attend an international school in Dubai. Maybe they are following the British Curriculum in Abu Dhabi, studying Common Core in Saudi Arabia, or moving between educational systems because your family is relocating. Perhaps your child has ADHD, dyslexia, autism, dyscalculia or simply needs a little more confidence.
So, what should you actually look for?
Having worked with students in Saudi Arabia, the UAE and other countries around the world, I have found that the best online tutor is not necessarily the person with the longest list of qualifications.
For me, one quality stands above the rest: flexibility.
Look for a tutor who understands your child’s curriculum
International families do not all follow the same educational pathway.
Some children study the British Curriculum, whilst others follow an American curriculum or another international programme. I have worked with students in Saudi Arabia following Common Core English and Mathematics programmes, as well as learners in the UAE whose schools approach certain areas of mathematics differently. I have also supported students preparing for GL Assessments and studying iGCSE English Language.
This experience has taught me that curriculum knowledge matters.
A tutor should understand what your child is being asked to learn, the terminology they are encountering and the expectations of their school. However, they also need to recognise that two children studying the same subject may have very different educational experiences.
For example, a child preparing for an assessment in Riyadh may need a different approach from a child preparing for a similar assessment in Bedford.
The underlying skills may be similar, but the route towards developing them can be completely different.
Look for flexibility rather than one fixed teaching method
This is probably the biggest lesson I have learnt from working with international families.
A tutor who rigidly follows one programme or one teaching style may struggle when a child’s circumstances change.
A flexible tutor can adapt resources, explanations, lesson structure and activities according to the learner sitting in front of them.
This is particularly important for children with additional learning needs.
There is no such thing as a “typical” child with ADHD. My own ADHD looks different from another person’s ADHD, and the same is true of children. Some learners need movement and discussion. Others need visual structure and predictable routines. Some thrive when lessons are highly interactive, whilst others need quieter periods to process information.
I have always felt that different minds sometimes need different routes to reach the same destination.
That is why I would be wary of any tutor who insists there is only one “right” way to learn.
Consider whether they understand neurodivergent learners
For families of children with ADHD, dyslexia, dyscalculia or autism, this can be particularly important.
A child may be perfectly capable of understanding a concept but struggle to demonstrate that understanding because of working memory, attention, processing, confidence or executive functioning difficulties.
I know this personally. I was diagnosed with ADHD at 31, and looking back at my own education, I can see that I was never lacking intelligence or enthusiasm. I loved learning. What I sometimes struggled with was working memory, multi-step instructions and maintaining focus when something failed to capture my imagination.
That experience has influenced the way I teach.
I believe a tutor should look beyond the difficulty and notice the child behind it.
For an ADHD learner, that might mean breaking a large task into smaller steps. For a dyslexic learner, it might mean using visual, creative or multi-sensory approaches. For another child, it might simply mean giving them enough time to think before expecting an answer.
The important thing is not to assume that every child needs the same support.
Look for someone who builds confidence
Academic progress is important, but confidence matters too.
I have worked with children who have become so accustomed to getting things wrong that they begin to avoid trying altogether. Sometimes the biggest breakthrough is not getting an answer correct. It is seeing a child put their hand up, have a go or say, “I don’t understand that yet.”
The right tutor should create an environment where mistakes are safe.
Children need to know that getting something wrong does not mean they are bad at the subject. It simply gives us information about what needs more practice.
This is particularly important for international learners who may already be adapting to a new country, school, language or curriculum.
Good tutoring develops skills.
Great tutoring can also help rebuild a child’s belief in their own ability.
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Look Beyond the Lesson Itself
Another important consideration for international families is whether the tutor can help a child make connections between learning and their wider educational journey.
A student may be preparing for a GL Assessment, moving towards iGCSE, changing schools or simply trying to catch up in an area where they have lost confidence.
In these situations, tuition should not feel like an isolated extra lesson added to an already busy week.
The tutor should understand the bigger picture and help the child see how the skills they are developing now will support them later.
In my experience, this can be particularly valuable for international families, where children may move between schools, curricula or even countries during their education. A flexible tutor can provide a sense of continuity when everything else around the child is changing.
Check that they understand the realities of international education
Online tuition has one enormous advantage for international families: geography is no longer such a barrier.
From Bedfordshire, I have been fortunate enough to support children in Saudi Arabia, the UAE, Thailand and many other parts of the world.
But working internationally requires more than simply opening a laptop.
Families may have different school calendars, different holidays and different daily routines. A UK summer holiday does not necessarily coincide with a child’s school holiday in the Middle East.
I have found this particularly interesting when working with families in Saudi Arabia and the UAE. There have been occasions when children overseas were preparing to return to school whilst UK pupils were still enjoying their summer break. At other times, international students have had a quieter period when we could focus on confidence-building, revisit difficult areas or simply enjoy learning without the pressure of a busy school term.
A good online tutor needs to understand this rather than expecting every family to fit around the UK school calendar.
Communication with parents matters
When you live thousands of miles away from your child’s tutor, communication becomes even more important.
Parents should feel comfortable asking questions and discussing how their child is progressing. The tutor should be able to explain what they are working on, where difficulties are appearing and where they have noticed progress.
This does not mean parents need a lengthy report after every lesson.
Sometimes a simple conversation is enough.
For international families especially, good communication helps everyone work towards the same goal. When the child, parent and tutor understand what they are trying to achieve, learning becomes much more consistent.
Look for the right person, not the most impressive profile
Qualifications matter. Experience matters. Subject knowledge matters.
But I would not choose an online tutor purely because their profile looks impressive.
I would ask:
Will my child feel comfortable with this person?
Will they be able to admit when they are confused? Will they feel able to make mistakes? Will the tutor notice their strengths as well as their difficulties? Will they adapt when something is not working?
These questions are particularly important for children with dyslexia, dyscalculia and other learning differences because there is no single approach that works for everyone.
Sometimes the tutor who looks perfect on paper is not the right person for your child.
And sometimes the tutor who takes the time to understand your child’s personality, interests and individual way of learning turns out to be exactly what they needed.
Final thoughts
Working with international families has taught me that children are remarkably adaptable.
Whether a child is learning persuasive writing in Dubai, developing reading comprehension in Riyadh or strengthening mathematical reasoning somewhere else in the world, the fundamental goal remains the same: helping them become confident, capable learners.
Curricula may change. School systems may change. Time zones may change.
But children still need encouragement, understanding and someone who believes they can succeed.
For me, that is what good online tuition is really about.
At Kite Tutoring, the online division of Bedford Tutor, I have supported children in Saudi Arabia, the UAE and other countries around the world, alongside families throughout the UK. My online lessons are designed to be flexible, personalised and engaging, with support tailored to each learner’s educational background, learning profile and goals.
Whether your child follows the British Curriculum, American Curriculum or another international programme, is preparing for GL Assessments, needs support with English or maths, or simply needs someone to help rebuild their confidence, finding the right tutor can make a remarkable difference.
Here at Bedford Tutor, I have supported home-educated learners across the UK and around the world for many years. From Functional Skills English and Maths to personalised learning programmes for children with ADHD, dyslexia, dyscalculia and autism, I have developed a flexible and engaging approach that helps students build confidence whilst developing the essential skills they need to thrive.
To find out more, please see below:
Bel 😊
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Home Education: Positive Ways to Make Learning Fun
Home education offers something that traditional schooling cannot always provide: freedom.
Freedom to slow down when something is difficult. Freedom to explore an unexpected interest. Freedom to spend a morning outside, learn through conversation or return to a subject when a child is ready.
But there can also be a funny little trap.
Once you have made the decision to home educate, it is very easy to feel that you now have to recreate school at home.
There are timetables. Worksheets. Workbooks. Spelling lists. Tests. Perhaps even a small desk in the corner which slowly begins to resemble a miniature classroom.
And whilst structure can be incredibly helpful, particularly for some children, home education does not have to feel like school.
In fact, for many children, particularly those with ADHD, dyslexia, dyscalculia, autism or low confidence, one of the greatest advantages of home education is being able to find a way of learning which feels natural to them.
Home education does not need to look like school
One of the things I love most about supporting home-educated children is the freedom to adapt learning.
Over the years, I have worked with home-educated learners across the UK and internationally, and I have seen just how different their educational journeys can be. Some children love routine and feel reassured by knowing exactly what will happen next. Others become much more engaged when learning is flexible, creative and connected to their interests.
Neither approach is wrong.
The important thing is finding what works for the child.
A child who loves dinosaurs might practise reading by exploring dinosaur facts. A child fascinated by baking can develop mathematical skills through weighing ingredients and working with fractions. Another child might discover that writing becomes much easier when they are allowed to create a story about their favourite game or animal.
The learning is still happening.
It simply does not always look like a traditional lesson.
Follow the interest
One of the simplest ways to make learning feel less like school is to pay attention to what your child is already interested in.
This does not mean abandoning the curriculum.
It means using curiosity as the doorway into it.
If your child is fascinated by space, for example, you might explore non-fiction reading, new vocabulary, descriptive writing, research skills and even mathematical problems involving planets.
If they love animals, you could read animal stories, compare sizes and measurements, write descriptions, create charts or investigate habitats.
Children are often far more willing to practise a skill when they can see a reason for using it.
This is particularly valuable for children who have previously struggled with motivation or confidence. In Kite Tutoring sessions, I regularly use games, challenges, creative activities and discussion because engagement is often the key to successful learning.
Learning through play is still learning
Sometimes parents worry that if learning is fun, it cannot possibly be rigorous.
I understand why.
We are used to thinking about education as something which happens at a desk, with a pencil in one hand and a worksheet in the other.
But children can learn an enormous amount through play, conversation and practical experiences.
A game involving money can develop mathematical reasoning. Building something can involve measurement, planning and problem-solving. Playing a word game can strengthen vocabulary and spelling. Cooking can involve fractions, sequencing and reading instructions.
For some dyslexic learners, making words physically using magnetic letters, wooden blocks or other hands-on resources can make learning much more meaningful than simply copying words from a page. Creative associations and visual approaches can also help ideas stick.
The activity may look like play.
Underneath it, there may be a great deal of learning taking place.
Do not be afraid of flexibility
One of the greatest advantages of home education is being able to learn at the child’s pace.
Perhaps your child understands fractions immediately but needs several weeks to become comfortable with spelling.
Perhaps they are full of energy in the morning but concentrate beautifully after lunch.
Perhaps they need movement between activities rather than sitting still for an hour.
Home education gives families the opportunity to respond to those differences rather than constantly asking the child to fit a predetermined timetable.
This can be especially helpful for neurodivergent learners.
Children with ADHD, for example, may benefit from movement, visual resources, interactive activities and smaller chunks of learning. Others may need additional processing time, practical examples or opportunities to revisit a concept without feeling that they have fallen behind.
The aim is not to remove structure completely.
It is to create the right structure.
Keep some routine, but leave room to breathe
Interestingly, making learning feel less like school does not necessarily mean having no routine.
Some children thrive on predictability.
A simple rhythm to the day can provide reassurance: breakfast, reading, outdoor time, maths, lunch, creative activity, perhaps some independent work.
The key is allowing the routine to breathe.
If an interesting conversation develops over breakfast, perhaps that becomes part of the day’s learning.
If your child is deeply absorbed in a project, perhaps you do not need to stop simply because the timetable says it is time to move on.
And if everyone is exhausted, sometimes the most sensible educational decision is to step away from the books.
Learning does not stop because the timetable does.
Protect confidence as carefully as you protect progress
This is something I feel particularly strongly about.
Academic progress matters, but so does the child’s relationship with learning.
Many children arrive at home education after difficult experiences in traditional educational environments. Some have begun to believe that they are “bad” at reading, maths or school generally.
That can take time to undo.
For these children, success might initially look very small.
Reading a paragraph without giving up.
Attempting a difficult maths problem.
Writing three sentences independently.
Asking for help instead of saying, “I can’t do it.”
These moments matter.
When children feel understood and supported, they are more willing to make mistakes, ask questions and take risks with their learning. Our approach at Kite Tutoring is deliberately strengths-based, with the aim of helping learners feel capable as well as developing their academic skills.
Confidence is not an optional extra.
It is part of learning.
What if my child still needs academic support?
Home education does not mean parents have to do everything alone.
Sometimes a child simply needs another person who understands their learning profile and can provide additional structure without recreating the school environment.
One-to-one tuition can be particularly useful when lessons are personalised around the child’s pace, interests and strengths. Online learning can also provide flexibility for home-educated families, including those living overseas or following British, American or international programmes.
The important thing is that additional tuition should complement home education rather than turning it into another version of school.
A good lesson might involve discussion, games, visual explanations, practical activities and plenty of encouragement alongside the academic content.
There is room for both learning and enjoyment.
Home education is allowed to be different
Perhaps the most important thing I would say to any parent beginning or continuing a home education journey is this:
You do not have to prove that your child is learning by making home look like school.
Education can happen around the kitchen table, on a walk, through a conversation, during a game, while cooking or through a subject that your child suddenly becomes completely fascinated by.
Of course, there will be times when structured learning is important. There may be qualifications to work towards, specific English or maths skills to develop, or Functional Skills assessments to prepare for.
But even then, learning does not have to become joyless.
After all, the whole point of home education is often to create an educational experience which genuinely meets the needs of the individual child.
Sometimes the most successful learning happens when we stop asking, “How can I make this look like school?” and start asking, “How can I help my child learn in a way that works for them?”
A little support can make a big difference
Here at Kite Tutoring, the online division of Bedford Tutor, we have supported home-educated learners across the UK and around the world for many years. From English and Maths to Functional Skills and personalised learning programmes for children with ADHD, dyslexia, dyscalculia and autism, our approach is flexible, engaging and centred around the individual learner.
For many families, the aim is not simply to cover the curriculum. It is to help a child rediscover confidence, curiosity and enjoyment in learning.
If you are looking for additional support as part of your home education journey, we would be very happy to have a conversation about what might work for your child.
Bel 😊
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What Makes an Online Tutor a Good Fit for a Child with ADHD?
Finding the right online tutor for a child with ADHD is about far more than finding someone who knows their English or maths curriculum.
Of course, subject knowledge matters. Experience matters too. But, in my experience, the most important question is whether the tutor understands how that particular child learns.
ADHD does not look the same in every person. I know this personally. I was not diagnosed with ADHD until I was 31. Because I loved learning and generally did well academically at school, nobody really questioned whether ADHD might be part of the picture. Looking back, however, I can see that I could become intensely absorbed when something captured my imagination, whilst repetitive or uninteresting tasks were much harder to sustain. I also struggled with working memory and multi-step instructions.
That experience has shaped the way I teach.
There is no such thing as a standard ADHD learner. My own experience has taught me that my ADHD is not somebody else’s ADHD, and their ADHD is not mine. What works beautifully for one child may be completely wrong for another.
So, what should parents look for when choosing an online tutor for a child with ADHD?
A tutor who makes learning interesting
For me, this is one of the biggest things.
Many ADHD learners have what we might describe as an interest-driven nervous system. When something is genuinely fascinating, attention can suddenly become incredibly powerful. When something feels repetitive, disconnected from real life or simply boring, maintaining that attention can be much harder.
This is something I recognise from my own life. As a child, I could put enormous effort into something that had grabbed me, but sustaining effort on something that did not interest me was another matter entirely.
That is why I don’t believe an ADHD-friendly lesson should simply be a worksheet followed by another worksheet.
I want lessons to have energy.
We might play a game, tackle a challenge, discuss an unusual topic, use a visual resource, solve a practical problem or suddenly take the lesson in a completely different direction because the child has become fascinated by something.
Variation and novelty can make a huge difference.
This does not mean that learning lacks structure. Quite the opposite. A good tutor can provide a strong framework whilst changing what happens inside it.
A tutor who starts with the child, not the worksheet
One of the great advantages of one-to-one online tuition is that there is no need to teach every child in exactly the same way.
I can look at the child sitting in front of me and think: What is going to make this work for them?
For one learner, that might mean movement and interactive activities. For another, it could mean visual resources. For someone else, it might mean breaking a difficult task into smaller pieces or using a practical example.
My current approach is very much strengths-based. Rather than viewing ADHD simply through the difficulties it can create, I want to understand a child’s interests, strengths, personality and ambitions too. This is consistent with the wider approach I use across my SEND tuition, where lessons are adapted to the individual learner rather than expecting the learner to fit a fixed model.
And sometimes those interests can completely transform a lesson.
When maths meets motorsport
One of my current online students is absolutely passionate about motorsports.
He doesn’t just enjoy watching motorsport. He has a genuine ambition to establish a business connected with the industry.
So why would I teach him maths using completely unrelated examples if I don’t have to?
Instead, we have explored mathematics through the things he actually cares about.
We’ve looked at costings connected with motorsport, discussed business ideas and used real-world situations to make mathematical concepts more meaningful. We’ve also designed logos and talked about what a potential business website might need.
Suddenly, maths is no longer just maths.
It is part of his future.
This is precisely why I believe interests are so powerful for ADHD learners. We are not removing the educational objective. We are changing the route we take to get there.
A lesson about percentages might become a discussion about profit margins. A problem-solving activity might involve working out costs. English could involve writing website content or thinking about how a business should communicate with customers.
The curriculum is still there. We have simply given it a reason to matter.
A tutor who understands the importance of clear steps
Interest alone is not enough.
Children with ADHD can understand a concept perfectly well and still become overwhelmed when a task contains too many steps.
This is something I recognise from my own experiences. Multi-step instructions have historically been an area of difficulty for me, and it is one of the reasons I am very conscious about how I present information to children.
If a mathematical problem requires five stages, I don’t necessarily expect a child to hold all five stages in their working memory.
Instead, we might write them down.
Step 1: What information do we have?
Step 2: What do we need to find?
Step 3: Which operation do we need?
Step 4: Complete the calculation.
Step 5: Check the answer.
Colour-coding can be incredibly useful here too.
Perhaps the important numbers are highlighted in yellow, the operation is blue and the final answer is green. For a child who finds a page visually overwhelming, suddenly there is a pathway through it.
A large problem becomes a collection of smaller, manageable jobs.
This is very much in keeping with the ADHD-friendly strategies I use: visual structure, checklists, step-by-step instructions and breaking larger tasks into smaller chunks.
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A tutor who has plenty of resources – but knows when to use them
In a classroom, one of the wonderful things we have is a wealth of resources.
We don’t have to teach every child with the same book, the same worksheet or the same activity.
If I know that a child loves dinosaurs, I can find dinosaur-related material. If they love sport, we can use sport. If they are fascinated by space, animals, cars or cooking, those interests can become bridges into learning.
This is particularly valuable with ADHD because interest can be the doorway into attention.
I have seen this with a girl I work with who absolutely loves nature. Rather than trying to make every reading comprehension about an arbitrary subject, we have used wildlife and nature-based comprehensions to develop her reading.
And it works beautifully because she already wants to know the answer.
She is not simply reading because an adult has told her to read. She is reading because she wants to discover something about an animal or the natural world.
That distinction matters.
A tutor who is patient and kind
Perhaps this sounds obvious, but I think it is one of the most important qualities of all.
Children with ADHD can spend an enormous amount of time being told to concentrate, stop fidgeting, listen properly, remember things and try harder.
Eventually, repeated correction can begin to affect confidence.
I remember how important it was when teachers recognised the things I did well. The teachers I remember most warmly were not necessarily those who were the strictest. They were the ones who noticed my enthusiasm, creativity and determination.
A good tutor needs patience.
They need to be able to say, Let’s try that another way.
They need to be comfortable repeating an explanation without making a child feel silly.
They need to celebrate the small victories.
And, perhaps most importantly, they need to help a child understand that finding something difficult does not mean they are incapable.
The best online tutor sees the whole child
Ultimately, I don’t think there is one perfect formula for tutoring a child with ADHD.
Some children love structure. Others need more flexibility. Some want to talk constantly. Others need quiet. Some thrive on games and movement, whilst others become completely absorbed by a particular subject.
The tutor’s job is to notice.
My own ADHD has taught me that neurodivergence is wonderfully varied. It has also taught me that children should not have to squeeze themselves into a particular model of what a learner is supposed to look like.
For me, the best online tuition combines kindness, structure, creativity, variation and genuine interest in the child.
It is about making learning entertaining without losing the educational purpose.
It is about taking a difficult multi-step problem and turning it into manageable steps.
It is about using colour, visuals and practical examples when they help.
It is about finding the subject that makes a child’s eyes light up and then asking, How can we use this to teach?
And sometimes, that means turning maths into motorsport.
Sometimes it means turning reading into wildlife exploration.
Sometimes it means designing a business logo, discussing a webpage or working out how much something would cost.
When we start with the child, rather than simply starting with the curriculum, learning can become something very different.
It can become something they actually want to do.
A personalised approach to ADHD tuition
Here at Kite Tutoring, the online division of Bedford Tutor, I have supported learners across the UK and around the world for many years. My own experience of ADHD, combined with more than fourteen years of educational experience, has shaped a flexible, strengths-based approach to tuition. I work with children who have ADHD, dyslexia, dyscalculia, autism and other learning differences, adapting lessons around their individual needs, interests and goals.
Whether that means developing reading through a child’s love of wildlife, making maths relevant through a passion for motorsport, or simply finding a clearer way through a multi-step problem, I believe children learn best when they feel understood.
To find out more, please see below:
Bel 😊
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Helping Autistic Children Find Their Own Route into Learning
There is no single way to learn.
This sounds like a simple statement, but it is something I have become increasingly aware of throughout my years of working with children. Every learner arrives with their own personality, interests, strengths, experiences, preferences and individual ways of approaching learning. For autistic children, as with all children, finding approaches that feel accessible and meaningful to the individual can make a real difference.
I have also gained a personal perspective on autism through my own life. My partner is autistic, and alongside my professional experience of working with autistic children, this has given me an even greater appreciation of how varied individual experiences of autism can be.
Although I am not autistic myself, I was diagnosed with ADHD as an adult. ADHD and autism are distinct neurodevelopmental conditions, although there can be some areas of overlap in how they may relate to learning, executive functioning, attention, sensory experiences and emotional regulation. My own experience of being neurodivergent has helped me recognise that people can experience learning and their surroundings in very different ways.
At the same time, I am very conscious that my experience of ADHD is my own. It does not tell me what it is like to be autistic, and I would never want to suggest that it does. Autistic people are the experts in their own experiences.
What it has encouraged me to do is remain curious, listen carefully and avoid making assumptions about what a child can or cannot do based simply on a diagnosis.
Every Autistic Child Is an Individual
One phrase I return to regularly is:
“When you have met one autistic person, you have met one autistic person.”
For me, this captures something important.
Autistic people are individuals, with their own personalities, preferences, interests, strengths, communication styles, sensory experiences and ways of interacting with the world. Autism can be experienced very differently from one person to another.
One autistic child may communicate very confidently through speech but find certain sensory environments difficult. Another may communicate in a different way. One child may enjoy a predictable routine, while another may be comfortable with considerable flexibility.
There is no single autistic experience and no single approach to learning that will suit every autistic learner.
This is why I believe it is so important to get to know the child rather than making assumptions based on a label.
Understanding the Child Behind the Learning
One of the most important things I have learnt from working with children is that what works brilliantly for one learner may not work at all for another.
Some autistic learners may find certain aspects of school particularly demanding, such as changes in routine, sensory distractions, communication demands, processing information or managing several instructions at once. Other children may find completely different aspects of learning challenging.
These differences do not tell us what a child is capable of.
A child can have the ability to complete a task and still find it difficult to demonstrate that ability in a particular situation. This can happen for many different reasons, including processing demands, working memory, executive functioning, attention, anxiety, communication differences or simply being asked to demonstrate knowledge in a way that does not suit the individual learner.
This is not unique to autism. Similar experiences can occur across many different neurodevelopmental and learning differences.
For me, the important question is therefore not simply:
“What does this child find difficult?”
It is also:
“What helps this child show what they know?”
Start with Strengths and Interests
Interests can be a wonderful starting point for learning.
A child who is fascinated by animals might be more motivated to practise descriptive writing by creating a fact file about a favourite species. A learner interested in space might explore reading comprehension through a passage about planets, or develop mathematical skills through problems involving distances and measurements.
The academic objective has not disappeared.
We have simply connected it to something meaningful to the learner.
I have seen this repeatedly in my work with children. When a learner is genuinely interested in a subject, engagement can change enormously. Questions may come more naturally, conversation can develop and a child who previously seemed reluctant to write may become much more willing to put ideas onto paper.
Interests do not have to be used in every lesson, and not every child wants their favourite interest incorporated into academic work. The important thing is to find out what genuinely motivates the individual child rather than assuming.
Sometimes the route into learning only becomes clear once we take the time to discover what makes a child curious.
Provide Structure Where It Helps
Predictability can be helpful for some autistic learners, although again, individual preferences vary.
Knowing what is going to happen next can make a lesson feel more manageable for a child who finds uncertainty difficult. A familiar structure might therefore include:
Warm-up → main activity → short break → challenge → review
But the exact format should be shaped around the individual learner.
Some children may benefit from visual explanations or knowing how much work remains. Others may find it easier when instructions are broken into smaller steps rather than being given a long list of information at once.
This is not about reducing expectations.
It is about making expectations accessible.
For a child who finds a large task difficult to approach, dividing it into smaller stages can make the same learning objective feel much more manageable.
Instead of:
“Write a story.”
we might begin with:
“Let’s choose our character.”
Then:
“Where are they?”
Then:
“What happens first?”
The task remains the same. We have simply provided a clearer route towards it.
Make Room for Different Ways of Communicating
Learning does not always have to begin with writing.
Some children may find it easier to explain an idea verbally before putting it onto paper. Others may prefer drawing, sorting, matching, discussing, using visual resources or working with physical materials.
There is no single correct way for a child to demonstrate understanding.
This is one reason I enjoy personalised tuition so much. There is time to notice what happens when we change the way something is presented.
If one explanation does not work, we can try another.
If a written activity feels difficult to access, perhaps we can talk about it first.
If a concept remains abstract, perhaps we can make it visual.
If a child communicates their understanding more effectively in another way, we can take that into account while still working towards the underlying learning objective.
My own ADHD has taught me to value this flexibility enormously. I know from personal experience that there can be a difference between understanding something and being able to access it through a particular method.
But I do not assume that an autistic child experiences the world in the same way I do.
Quite the opposite.
My own neurodivergence reminds me to stay curious rather than make assumptions.
The aim is not to find one “autism-friendly” teaching technique that works for everyone.
It is to remain flexible enough to keep looking for what works for the individual learner.
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Recognise Strengths Alongside Support Needs
Conversations about additional needs can sometimes become heavily focused on difficulties.
It is important that support needs are understood and properly supported, but they should not become the whole story of a child.
Autistic children have their own interests, personalities, abilities and strengths. Some may develop an exceptionally detailed knowledge of subjects that fascinate them. Some may approach problems in creative or unexpected ways. Others may have strengths that are much quieter and only become apparent when they are given the right opportunity to demonstrate them.
There can also be significant challenges associated with being autistic, and those challenges deserve understanding, appropriate support and respect.
A strengths-based approach does not mean pretending that difficulties do not exist.
It means recognising the whole child.
A child’s support needs and their strengths can exist alongside one another.
Confidence Matters Alongside Curriculum Content
A child can understand something and still find it difficult to show that understanding in a particular setting.
This is something I see across many different learning profiles, including autism, ADHD, dyslexia, dyscalculia and other learning differences.
A learner may know the answer but struggle to organise their thoughts. They may understand a mathematical concept but find it difficult to explain their reasoning. They may have wonderful ideas for a piece of writing but struggle to transfer those ideas onto the page.
This is why I place such importance on creating a learning environment where children feel comfortable making mistakes.
Mistakes are part of learning.
Getting something wrong does not mean that a child has failed. It gives us information about what they understand already and what we might need to revisit.
Over time, small experiences of success can help children develop greater confidence in themselves as learners.
Learning Does Not Have to Look Exactly Like School
Personalised tuition gives us the opportunity to think carefully about how learning is presented.
For some children, movement may support concentration. For others, visual resources may be particularly useful. Some learners may benefit from shorter activities, while others may become deeply absorbed when a subject captures their interest.
Discussion, games, challenges, creative activities and practical examples can all have a place in learning.
These approaches are not exclusively for autistic children. They can benefit many different learners.
The important thing is to consider what helps the individual child engage, understand and demonstrate their learning.
Learning can be purposeful without feeling rigid.
It can be structured without being restrictive.
And it can remain academically ambitious while also being responsive to the needs of the learner.
Finding Their Own Route
Perhaps the most important thing I have learnt is that successful education is not about making every child learn in exactly the same way.
It is about helping each child develop their skills while giving them appropriate opportunities to access learning in ways that work for them.
For one autistic learner, that route might involve visual resources and clear routines.
For another, it might involve talking about a favourite subject before connecting that interest to English or maths.
For another, it might mean additional processing time, breaking tasks into smaller pieces or reducing unnecessary distractions.
And for another child, it might look completely different again.
That is the point.
There is no single autistic learning style.
There is no single teaching strategy that works for every autistic learner.
And there is certainly no expectation that an autistic child should be made to appear less autistic in order to succeed academically.
My ADHD does not make me an expert on autism, and I would never suggest that it does. What it has given me is personal experience of being neurodivergent, an understanding that people can experience learning differently, and a strong reminder to look for the individual rather than making assumptions based on a diagnosis.
Combined with my professional experience supporting children and my personal experience of having an autistic partner, this has shaped the way I approach personalised tuition.
The goal is not to change the child so that they fit the learning.
The goal is to make the learning more accessible to the child while maintaining meaningful and appropriate expectations.
When children feel understood, valued and capable, they can have greater opportunities to show what they know, develop their skills and enjoy learning.
And sometimes, one of the most rewarding parts of that process is discovering a strength that had previously been overlooked.
Supporting Autistic Learners as Individuals
At Bedford Tutor and our online division, Kite Tutoring, we have supported autistic children alongside learners with ADHD, dyslexia, dyscalculia and other learning differences for many years.
Our approach begins with the individual learner rather than assuming that a particular diagnosis tells us everything we need to know.
Personalised in-person, hybrid and online lessons can be adapted around the child’s needs, interests, communication preferences and learning goals, while continuing to work towards meaningful academic progress.
Whether your child is working towards school qualifications, following the British or American Curriculum abroad, being home educated or simply needs additional support with English or maths, we aim to create a learning environment where they can develop their skills and confidence.
Sometimes a child does not need someone to push them harder.
Sometimes they need someone to look carefully at the path in front of them and ask:
“What could make this more accessible?”
Because when we take the time to understand the individual learner, we give them more opportunities to show what they know, develop their skills and experience themselves as capable learners.
And sometimes, that is where the most meaningful progress begins.
Bel 😊
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ADHD and Primary English: Helping Children Share Their Ideas with Confidence
One of the things I love most about teaching English is discovering what is going on inside a child’s imagination.
Sometimes the ideas are enormous.
A child can tell you an incredibly detailed story about a dragon who lives underneath their school, explain exactly what happened to every character and describe the ending with complete confidence. Then you put a piece of paper in front of them and say, “Now write it down.”
Suddenly, the story seems to disappear.
For many children with ADHD, the difficulty isn’t necessarily coming up with ideas. In fact, some ADHD children have lots of ideas. The challenge can be organising those ideas, holding onto them in working memory and turning them into a structured piece of writing.
As someone with ADHD myself, this is something I understand very personally.
ADHD and English: When the ideas are bigger than the page
ADHD is often associated with difficulties around attention, organisation, working memory and executive functioning. However, ADHD looks different in every person. As I have written previously, my own ADHD has never fitted neatly into the stereotypical picture. I could be highly organised and successful academically whilst still experiencing very real difficulties with listening, distraction and managing certain tasks.
Writing at school was one of those areas where I could sometimes see the problem quite clearly.
I have always loved writing. I was naturally drawn towards words and stories, and I still write frequently today. I particularly love writing poems because poetry allows me to take an emotion and share it quickly through words.
Yet being naturally drawn to writing didn’t mean that I always found school writing easy.
I often didn’t follow plans or instructions effectively, and this could cost me marks. I might understand the subject, have plenty of ideas and genuinely enjoy the task, but somewhere between the instruction, the planning and the finished piece, something would go missing.
Looking back now, I can see how much easier some of those tasks might have been if I had been shown ways of getting my ideas out of my head before worrying about producing the “perfect” written answer.
Try telling the story before writing it
One of my favourite approaches with ADHD learners is wonderfully simple:
Let them talk.
Many ADHD children absolutely love verbalising their ideas. Talking can be a brilliant way of getting thoughts out of the brain and making them more concrete.
If a child is asked to write a story about a mysterious door, for example, I might start by asking:
“What is behind the door?”
They might tell me about a secret laboratory, a talking cat, a spaceship and a forgotten treasure map.
Excellent!
We have a story.
At this point, I don’t want to interrupt that flow by immediately asking them to write a paragraph.
Instead, we can talk through what happens first, next and finally.
That verbal rehearsal can help bring ideas into working memory before we try to capture them on paper. It also allows me to hear what the child actually understands. Sometimes the spoken story is considerably more sophisticated than the written one.
That tells me something important.
The child may not have a language problem at all. They may simply need help transferring their ideas into written form.
Drawing can unlock ideas too
Talking isn’t the only way to get ideas out.
Drawing can be incredibly powerful.
Some children find it much easier to draw what they are imagining before they attempt to describe it. This can be particularly useful for story writing.
A child might draw:
- the setting
- the main character
- the problem
- something important that happens
- the ending
We can then use the picture as a springboard for sentences.
I have seen children who initially say, “I don’t know what to write,” suddenly become incredibly animated once they are allowed to draw.
And that’s the important bit.
We aren’t avoiding writing.
We are finding a route into writing.
Visual mind maps can make writing feel manageable
Another strategy I regularly use is the humble mind map.
For an ADHD learner, a blank page can sometimes feel enormous. There are too many possible places to start.
A visual mind map gives those thoughts somewhere to land.
For example, if we are writing a story about a lost child, we might put THE LOST CHILD in the centre and branch out into:
Where?
A forest.Who?
Mia and her dog.Problem?
They cannot find the path home.What happens?
They discover an abandoned cottage.Ending?
They find their way home by following the stars.Suddenly, the child doesn’t have to remember the whole story.
The ideas are visible.
This is particularly helpful when organisation and sequencing are difficult.
Story planning needs to be practical
I also love using structured story planning resources. We particularly enjoy the story planning documents available through Twinkl because they can make planning feel much more engaging and manageable.
One thing I frequently notice with ADHD learners is that planning and follow-through can be two very different things.
A child might enthusiastically plan an incredible story and then struggle to actually use the plan when writing it.
This is where smaller steps can help.
Instead of saying, “Now write your story,” we might work through:
- Write the opening.
- Introduce the character.
- Explain the problem.
- Add an interesting event.
- Bring the story towards an ending.
- Read it back and improve one section.
The aim isn’t to make writing rigid.
It is to give the child’s ideas a little scaffolding so they don’t disappear halfway through the task.
My own love of writing eventually became my career
Writing has always been part of my life.
In my twenties, I wrote two books (Storme and Spectrum Shift) which I self-published. That experience helped me realise just how much I loved creating stories and putting ideas into words, and it ultimately contributed to me discovering my passion for becoming an English tutor.
I still write poems regularly.
For me, poetry is a particularly lovely form of expression because sometimes an emotion is complicated, messy and difficult to explain. A few carefully chosen words can somehow capture it.
I think this is one of the reasons I enjoy teaching English to children with ADHD so much.
There is something wonderful about watching a child realise that their ideas matter.
ADHD, dyslexia and other forms of neurodivergence
ADHD also doesn’t always appear on its own.
Children with ADHD may also have dyslexia, dyscalculia, autism or other forms of neurodivergence. These differences can overlap, although having ADHD does not automatically mean a child will have another diagnosis.
This is important because difficulties with writing can have many different causes.
A child may struggle with organising ideas because of executive functioning difficulties. Another may find spelling and written language particularly challenging because of dyslexia. Another may have excellent ideas but become overwhelmed by the process of getting everything onto the page.
This is why I don’t believe in a single “ADHD writing strategy”.
The starting point should always be the child.
What happens when they talk?
What happens when they draw?
Can they explain the story verbally?
Do they need a visual plan?
Would a mind map help?
Could they dictate their first ideas before writing them?
Once we understand where the difficulty is happening, we can start finding strategies that genuinely help.
English should help children find their voice
Ultimately, primary English isn’t just about spelling tests, handwriting and writing stories that contain the correct number of paragraphs.
It is about communication.
It is about helping children take the fascinating thoughts inside their heads and share them with somebody else.
For an ADHD child, that process may need to look slightly different.
Perhaps the story starts with a conversation.
Perhaps it begins with a drawing.
Perhaps it grows through a colourful mind map before becoming a paragraph.
Perhaps the child tells the whole story aloud first and then writes it down.
None of these approaches mean that we are lowering expectations.
We are simply giving the child a bridge between having the idea and being able to express it.
And sometimes, that bridge is exactly what a child needs to discover that they really are a writer.
Helping ADHD children become confident writers
After years of working with children with ADHD, dyslexia and other learning differences, I have become increasingly convinced that confidence is one of the most important ingredients in successful learning.
When a child repeatedly experiences writing as something they cannot do, they can quickly begin to avoid it.
But when we show them that their ideas are valuable, give them practical ways to organise those ideas and celebrate the progress they make, their attitude can change.
The child who once said, “I don’t know what to write,” may suddenly have a story to tell.
And once they have a story to tell, we can help them find the words.
Here at Bedford Tutor and our online division, Kite Tutoring, we have supported children with ADHD, dyslexia, dyscalculia, autism and other learning differences for many years. My own experience of ADHD has helped me understand just how differently children can think, learn and express themselves, whilst my experience as an English tutor has shown me the value of finding creative routes into literacy.
Whether a child needs help organising their ideas, developing their writing, building confidence or simply discovering that English can actually be enjoyable, I believe the most important thing is to start with the child sitting in front of you.
Sometimes we just need to give their ideas a little more room to breathe.
To find out more, please see below:
Bel 😊
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Home Education British Curriculum: Helpful Tips
Home education can be an incredibly rewarding way of learning.
It can give children the freedom to explore subjects in greater depth, learn at their own pace and spend more time developing the things they are genuinely interested in. For some families, it provides an opportunity to create an education that fits around the child rather than expecting the child to fit into a traditional school environment.
But I also know that home education can leave parents with plenty of questions.
Are we covering enough?
Is my child making the progress they should be?
How do I make sure they develop the English and maths skills they need?
What happens if they have additional learning needs?
And perhaps one of the biggest questions of all: how do I make learning work for my particular child?
Having supported home-educated children for many years, these are questions I understand very well. I have worked with learners studying a wide variety of subjects and following the British Curriculum, as well as children following other educational programmes around the world.
And one thing I have learnt repeatedly is that there is no single way to make home education work.
The child has to come first.
Home education doesn’t have to look like school
One of the things I love most about working with home-educated students is the freedom.
Learning doesn’t necessarily have to mean sitting at a desk completing worksheet after worksheet. In fact, some children become far more engaged when we take an idea from their own interests and use it as a starting point for learning.
A child who loves animals might explore descriptive writing through an imaginary wildlife documentary.
A student fascinated by football might develop mathematical skills through statistics, averages, percentages and graphs.
A child interested in history might discover that their passion provides a wonderful starting point for reading comprehension, vocabulary, research and extended writing.
Someone who loves gaming might develop problem-solving and logical thinking through mathematics, while also using their interests as inspiration for creative writing.
The curriculum still matters. Children need to develop important knowledge and skills. But the route we take to get there can be much more flexible.
Over the years, I have found that when children are genuinely interested in what they are learning, they often become far more willing to tackle the things they previously found difficult.
That is particularly important when supporting children with SEND.
My experience supporting SEND learners
SEND is a particularly important part of my work.
For more than fourteen years, I have supported children and young people with a wide range of educational needs, abilities and learning styles. My experience includes working with learners with ADHD, dyslexia, dyscalculia and autism, as well as children experiencing executive functioning difficulties, low confidence and anxiety around learning.
I am very proud to describe myself as a SEND-experienced tutor.
This isn’t simply because I have experience working with children who have additional needs. It is because understanding the individual learner is at the heart of the way I teach.
I am also neurodivergent myself.
I wasn’t diagnosed with ADHD until I was 31, and looking back at my own education, I can now see many things very differently. I loved learning and was academically capable, but there were aspects of education which were much harder for me than they appeared from the outside.
My own experience has made me particularly aware of how easily children can be misunderstood.
ADHD does not look the same in every person. Dyslexia does not affect every learner in exactly the same way. Autistic children are not all going to benefit from identical approaches. And a child with dyscalculia may have a completely different experience of mathematics from another child.
There is no single “SEND learner”.
My own ADHD journey taught me that very clearly. As I have written previously, my ADHD is not your ADHD and your ADHD is not mine. We all experience neurodivergence differently.
That philosophy is incredibly important in my tutoring.
I don’t want to see a diagnosis and immediately decide how a child should be taught.
I want to get to know the child.
A teenager I have supported for many years
One of the most rewarding parts of tutoring is seeing how a child develops over time.
I have been tutoring one particular teenager for a number of years, and it has been wonderful to watch her educational journey develop and change as she has grown.
We are now working together on Functional Skills English and Functional Skills Maths, which is a very different stage from where we began.
I think this is a lovely example of why personalised tuition can be so valuable.
Education isn’t always about following a predetermined route simply because that is what everyone else is doing.
Sometimes we need to step back and ask:
What does this young person actually need now?
For this student, Functional Skills provides an important opportunity to develop practical English and maths skills which are relevant to her future. Because I have worked with her for so long, I understand her strengths, the areas she finds more difficult and the approaches which help her engage.
That relationship matters.
Good tuition isn’t simply about knowing the curriculum.
It is about knowing the learner.
Building the British Curriculum around the child
For families choosing home education, the British Curriculum can provide a useful framework.
It gives parents some reassurance about the knowledge and skills children are expected to develop, particularly in core subjects such as English and mathematics.
But a framework doesn’t have to become a cage.
One child may need additional time to develop reading comprehension. Another may need to revisit mathematical concepts several times before they become secure.
A dyslexic learner may benefit from multi-sensory approaches to reading, spelling and writing.
A child with dyscalculia may need practical and visual ways of understanding number.
An ADHD learner might benefit from shorter activities, movement, variety and clear structure.
An autistic learner may need predictable routines and carefully considered communication.
None of these things mean that a child is incapable of following the British Curriculum.
They simply mean that they may need a different route through it.
This is one of the greatest advantages of personalised home education.
English and maths are about much more than worksheets
English and maths are often the subjects parents feel most concerned about when they begin home educating.
With English, we might work on reading, comprehension, spelling, vocabulary, grammar, punctuation, creative writing or communication.
With maths, we might focus on number, calculation, reasoning, problem-solving, fractions, percentages or practical mathematics.
But underneath all of this is confidence.
I have seen children who are perfectly capable of learning begin to believe that they are “bad at English” or “just can’t do maths” because previous experiences have knocked their confidence.
This can be particularly painful for children with SEND.
A child who has spent years being told to concentrate harder, stop making careless mistakes or simply try harder can eventually start believing that they are the problem.
They aren’t.
Sometimes the teaching approach simply hasn’t matched the learner.
Learning through interests
One of the things I have particularly enjoyed over the years is using children’s interests to make learning engaging.
I have supported a number of home-educated students, and no two have ever been exactly alike.
Their interests become doorways into learning.
A love of animals can lead into research and writing.
An interest in space can become a wonderful opportunity for reading, vocabulary and scientific discussion.
Sport can provide endless opportunities for maths.
History can inspire creative writing.
Art can support descriptive language.
Even seemingly niche interests can become incredibly useful starting points for education.
I don’t believe that every lesson needs to be entertaining every second. Children still need to experience challenge, practise skills and sometimes persevere with things they don’t immediately enjoy.
But motivation matters.
When a child understands why they are doing something and can connect it to something they already care about, learning can feel completely different.
Home education can be particularly valuable for SEND learners
For some families, home education provides something that traditional schooling simply hasn’t been able to offer: time.
Time to slow down.
Time to revisit something.
Time to ask another question.
Time to approach a concept differently.
Time to celebrate progress without constantly comparing a child with thirty other children in the same classroom.
This can be particularly valuable for neurodivergent learners.
Children with ADHD, dyslexia, dyscalculia and autism can sometimes spend an enormous amount of energy navigating environments that weren’t designed with their needs in mind.
Home education doesn’t automatically solve every difficulty, of course. Parents can still find themselves exhausted, uncertain or unsure about how best to support their child’s learning.
That is where specialist tuition can become a useful part of the wider home education picture.
The tutor doesn’t replace the parent.
Instead, they can provide subject expertise, structure, encouragement and a different perspective.
Looking towards September
As September approaches, I know many home-educating families will be thinking carefully about the year ahead.
For some children, that may mean continuing with the British Curriculum.
For others, it may mean strengthening English and maths, preparing for Functional Skills, developing confidence or creating a more consistent learning routine.
For children with SEND, finding the right support can be particularly important.
Perhaps your child has struggled with school and needs an education that feels calmer and more individual.
Perhaps they are academically capable but have lost confidence.
Perhaps they have ADHD and need learning to be more flexible and engaging.
Perhaps dyslexia has made reading and writing exhausting.
Perhaps maths has become a source of anxiety because of dyscalculia.
Or perhaps your child is simply wonderfully individual and you want their education to reflect that.
Whatever the reason, I believe home education should give children the opportunity to learn in a way that recognises who they are.
Not every child needs the same timetable.
Not every child needs the same resources.
And not every child will make progress in exactly the same way.
What they do need is someone who understands learning, understands SEND and is prepared to meet them where they are.
Personalised tuition that grows with the child
For me, that is what personalised tuition is really about.
It isn’t about taking a child and trying to squeeze them into a pre-existing programme.
It is about looking at the learner in front of me and asking:
Where are they now?
Where would they like to go?
And what will help them get there?
After many years of supporting home-educated learners, I have seen just how powerful this approach can be.
Sometimes progress is a qualification.
Sometimes it is finally understanding a mathematical concept that has caused difficulty for years.
Sometimes it is writing a paragraph independently.
Sometimes it is reading aloud without that familiar feeling of dread.
And sometimes it is simply a child finishing a lesson and saying:
“That wasn’t as difficult as I thought.”
Those moments matter enormously.
Here at Bedford Tutor, I have supported home-educated learners across the UK and around the world for many years. I am a SEND-experienced tutor with extensive experience supporting children with ADHD, autism, dyslexia, dyscalculia and a range of other learning differences. My approach is flexible, creative and personalised because I know that children learn in very different ways.
From following the British Curriculum and developing core English and maths skills to working towards Functional Skills English and Maths, I adapt tuition around the individual learner. I also love using children’s interests as a starting point for learning, because I have seen time and time again how much more engaged children can become when education connects with something they genuinely care about.
Most importantly, I want children to finish their lessons feeling that they can learn.
If you are considering home education for September, or are already home educating and looking for specialist English, maths or SEND tuition, I would be very happy to have a conversation about your child’s individual needs.
Bel 😊
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Reading Fluency for Dyslexic Children: Helpful Tips
For some children with dyslexia, reading can feel like hard work.
A page of words which looks perfectly ordinary to an adult can feel like a maze to a child who is still working out sounds, recognising familiar words and remembering what they have just read. When reading requires so much concentration, it is understandable that some children begin to avoid it altogether.
This is why I believe building reading fluency should be about much more than simply asking a child to read more books.
It is about helping them become familiar with words, developing confidence, creating opportunities for successful literacy and, perhaps most importantly, helping them discover that books and stories can actually be enjoyable.
Over the years, I have supported many children with dyslexia and have found that small, everyday opportunities to practise literacy can make a surprisingly big difference.
What is reading fluency?
Reading fluency is the ability to read words accurately, smoothly and with increasing confidence.
For a child with dyslexia, this can take time. They may need to work much harder than their peers to recognise words automatically, decode unfamiliar vocabulary or remember common spelling patterns.
This does not mean they lack intelligence or understanding.
In fact, many dyslexic learners are bright, creative and incredibly capable. The difficulty is often that the mechanics of reading can require so much mental energy that there is less capacity left for enjoying the story or thinking about what the words mean.
This is why developing fluency gradually can be so valuable.
Reading does not only happen with a book
One of the things I encourage parents to remember is that literacy practice does not have to mean sitting at a table with a reading book every evening.
There are opportunities to read everywhere.
Think about a car journey.
There are road signs, shop names, directions, number plates and signs on buildings. A child might spot a word they recognise and read it aloud. Perhaps they can read “STOP” on a road sign, “Tesco” outside the supermarket or a place name they have seen before.
These little moments count.
They allow children to practise recognising words in a natural environment without the pressure of completing a formal literacy exercise.
Sometimes I will deliberately point out a sign and ask, “Can you read that one?” Other times, I might let the child notice it themselves.
It is amazing how much more enjoyable literacy can become when it has a purpose.
Short reading activities can be incredibly effective
When a child finds reading difficult, long sessions can quickly become exhausting.
This is particularly important to remember with dyslexic learners.
Rather than expecting a child to read for a long period of time, I often prefer short, manageable activities. A few minutes of focused practice can be much more productive than pushing a child until they are tired and frustrated.
Flash cards can be useful here.
We might practise a small number of familiar words, revisit words we have encountered before or look at particular spelling patterns. The aim is not to overwhelm the child with a huge pile of cards.
Instead, we want them to experience success.
Perhaps they read eight words correctly today.
Tomorrow, we might revisit those same words before introducing one or two new ones.
Over time, words which once required considerable thought can become familiar. That growing automaticity can make literacy feel less tiring.
Choose books because the child loves them
One of the most important things we can do is choose books that children actually want to read.
If a child loves dinosaurs, let them read about dinosaurs.
If they are fascinated by football, find a football book.
If they adore funny stories, look for something that makes them laugh.
If they love animals, choose animal stories or fact books.
The subject matter matters because motivation matters.
However, there is another important consideration: the book needs to be suitable for the child’s age and reading ability.
A child may be ten years old but have a reading age which means that some ten-year-old novels are currently too difficult. There is absolutely nothing wrong with finding a book which is easier to read while still being interesting and age-appropriate.
We want children to feel successful, not embarrassed by the level of the book they are using.
A book being easier does not make the experience less valuable.
Let children read the words they can
When I am reading with a child, I don’t want to take every word away from them.
If they can read a word, I let them read it.
That sounds obvious, but it is an important part of building independence.
If a child sees a familiar word and recognises it, that is a success. We want them to notice those moments and realise, “I know this word!”
If they come across a word they cannot read, however, they do not need to sit staring at it indefinitely.
This is where adult support becomes incredibly valuable.
Guided reading: supporting without taking over
Guided reading is one of the approaches I particularly like because it gives children the opportunity to work through text independently whilst knowing that an adult is there to help.
The child reads the words they can.
When they reach a word they cannot decode, the adult provides an appropriate prompt or helps them work through it.
Sometimes we might look at the sounds within the word. Sometimes we might break a longer word into syllables. Sometimes the adult simply supplies the word so that the child can continue with the sentence and maintain the meaning of the story.
The important thing is that the child is not left struggling for so long that reading becomes miserable.
Nor do we want an adult reading the entire book for them.
It is a partnership.
The child reads what they can. The adult supports what they cannot.
That creates a lovely balance between independence and reassurance.
Don’t forget to talk about the story
Reading fluency is not simply about saying words quickly.
Reading is about understanding, imagining, questioning and connecting with what is on the page.
After a short section, we might stop and ask:
“What do you think is going to happen?”
“Why do you think the character did that?”
“Which bit was your favourite?”
“Can you find the word that tells us…?”
These conversations allow children to engage with the meaning of the text even when decoding is still developing.
They also remind children that reading is about much more than getting every word right.
Confidence is part of the process
Perhaps the most important thing I have learnt from working with dyslexic learners is that confidence can change everything.
When a child has experienced repeated difficulty with reading, they can begin to see themselves as someone who “can’t read”.
We need to challenge that belief gently.
One word.
One sentence.
One page.
One successful book.
These little victories matter.
As I have written previously, I cannot overstate the importance of helping a child recognise their own progress. Sometimes confidence grows through tiny successes which gradually begin to fill a much larger bucket.
This is also why we try to make literacy learning active and engaging. Our dyslexia support work incorporates structured approaches alongside creativity, visual learning and hands-on activities, rather than relying solely on repetitive worksheets.
Reading fluency is a journey, not a race
Every child develops at a different pace.
For a child with dyslexia, reading may take longer to become automatic, and there may be periods when progress feels frustratingly slow. That does not mean progress is not happening.
- Keep reading visible in everyday life.
- Read signs during car journeys.
- Use short flash-card activities.
- Choose books around your child’s interests.
- Make sure the reading level is appropriate.
- Let them read the words they know.
- Guide them through the words they don’t.
- Talk about the story.
- And, above all, protect their confidence.
We are not trying to create a child who can simply get to the end of a page as quickly as possible.
We are trying to help create a child who looks at a page and thinks, “I can do this.”
That is where reading fluency becomes so much more than a literacy skill. It becomes another little piece of independence, confidence and enjoyment.
Supporting Dyslexic Readers at Bedford Tutor
Here at Bedford Tutor and Kite Online Tutoring, we have supported many children with dyslexia through personalised English tuition and our Diamond Spelling & Reading Programme. Our approach combines structured literacy teaching with engaging, practical and creative activities, helping children develop reading and spelling skills whilst building confidence along the way. We understand that every learner is different, so lessons are adapted to the child’s individual age, ability, strengths and needs.
If reading has become a source of frustration for your child, sometimes the answer is not simply to ask them to read more.
Sometimes we need to find a different way into reading.
And sometimes, the most important first step is helping a child discover that they really can become a reader.
To find out more, please see below:
Bel 😊
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Working Memory Strategies: Fun Ways to Boost Learning
Working memory is often described as the brain’s “mental notepad”. It allows us to hold information in our minds whilst using it. Whether a child is remembering a set of instructions, solving a maths problem, following a sentence whilst reading or recalling how to spell a word, working memory is constantly at work.
For many children, particularly those with ADHD, dyslexia, dyscalculia or other special educational needs, working memory can become overloaded very quickly. This doesn’t mean they aren’t intelligent. In fact, many highly capable children have weaker working memory and simply need the right strategies to help them succeed.
One of the questions parents often ask me is whether working memory can be improved.
The answer is encouraging: whilst every child is different, working memory skills can often be strengthened through regular practice. Better still, many of the most effective activities feel like games rather than formal learning.
At Bedford Tutor and our online division, Kite Tutoring, we naturally build working memory activities into our lessons because children are far more likely to make progress when they’re engaged and enjoying themselves. Rather than endless worksheets, we use practical, visual and interactive activities that develop memory alongside confidence.
Why Working Memory Matters
Working memory plays a role in almost every aspect of learning.
Children use it when:
- Following multi-step instructions.
- Remembering what they’ve just read.
- Solving mathematical calculations.
- Learning spellings.
- Writing sentences whilst remembering punctuation and grammar.
- Holding information in mind whilst answering questions.
When working memory is under pressure, children may forget what they were doing halfway through a task, lose track of instructions or become frustrated because they know the answer but can’t quite hold onto it.
Fortunately, there are lots of enjoyable ways to strengthen these skills.
Matching Pairs
One of our favourite working memory activities is the classic matching pairs game.
Although it seems simple, matching pairs encourages children to store visual information before retrieving it moments later. Every time they turn over two cards, they’re practising concentration, visual memory and recall.
During our face-to-face lessons, we use physical matching cards which can easily be adapted to suit different ages and interests. Sometimes the cards contain pictures, whilst other times they focus on letters, words, numbers or curriculum topics.
Our online learners certainly don’t miss out. We regularly use interactive Wordwall matching activities which recreate exactly the same challenge on screen. Children often become so engaged in trying to beat their previous score that they forget they’re developing an important learning skill at the same time.
The Tray Game
Another activity that has stood the test of time is the tray game.
A selection of everyday objects is placed on a tray and the child is given time to study everything they can see.
The tray is then covered, or one item is secretly removed.
The challenge is simple:
Which object has disappeared?
Children quickly learn to create a mental picture before comparing it with what they can now see. This strengthens both visual working memory and observation skills.
It’s a game that children of all ages enjoy because it naturally becomes more challenging as they improve.
During our face-to-face lessons we use real objects, making the activity tactile and engaging. For our online sessions, we simply adapt the game using photographs or images displayed on screen. The same thinking skills are developed, proving that online learning can be every bit as interactive as learning in person.
Visual Card Games
Many working memory activities involve remembering sequences.
We regularly play visual card games where children are shown a series of coloured shapes, pictures or symbols before trying to recreate the order from memory.
At first there may only be three items.
As confidence grows, the sequences gradually become longer and more challenging.
These activities help children develop their ability to hold and manipulate visual information — a skill which supports reading, mathematics and problem-solving.
For online lessons, we use interactive versions of these activities which work brilliantly on screen. Children enjoy remembering the order of shapes, colours and patterns whilst receiving immediate feedback as they play.
Shopping List Games
Another deceptively simple activity is the shopping list game.
It begins with one item.
“I’m going shopping and I’m buying apples.”
The next person repeats the first item before adding another.
“I’m going shopping and I’m buying apples and bread.”
The list continues to grow until everyone is remembering surprisingly long sequences.
This game develops verbal working memory, listening skills and concentration whilst encouraging children to think carefully before responding.
One of the reasons I enjoy this activity is that it can easily be adapted around a child’s interests. Instead of shopping items, we might use animals, planets, dinosaurs, football teams or favourite foods. When children are interested in the topic, they often remember much more than they expect.
Why Games Work So Well
Children rarely develop stronger working memory by completing endless worksheets.
Instead, they improve through repeated opportunities to remember, retrieve and manipulate information in enjoyable ways.
Games naturally encourage repetition without boredom.
Children are willing to have another go because they’re focused on winning the challenge rather than practising a cognitive skill.
This is particularly important for many neurodivergent learners. Children with ADHD, dyslexia, dyscalculia or autism often benefit from highly interactive learning which keeps them actively involved rather than passively completing written exercises.
Over the years, I’ve found that confidence often grows alongside working memory. As children experience success, they become more willing to tackle increasingly challenging activities, creating a positive cycle of progress.
Final Thoughts
Working memory is an essential foundation for successful learning, but it doesn’t have to be developed through formal exercises alone.
Simple activities such as matching pairs, the tray game, visual sequencing games and shopping list challenges all strengthen important cognitive skills whilst making learning enjoyable.
Whether we’re working together face-to-face or online using interactive Wordwall activities and other digital resources, our aim is always the same: to help children develop stronger working memory in an environment where they feel relaxed, engaged and confident.
After all, when children enjoy learning, they’re far more likely to remember it.
Here Bedford Tutor and Kite Tutoring, we regularly incorporate working memory activities into our personalised English and maths lessons. From interactive Wordwall games and visual memory challenges to practical activities that can be adapted for both in-person and online learning, we help children with ADHD, dyslexia, dyscalculia and other learning differences develop confidence whilst strengthening the skills that make learning easier.
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Primary Maths Confidence: Powerful Ways to Help Children
Confidence and maths don’t always seem to go hand in hand.
Over the years, I’ve met countless children who happily tackle a tricky reading comprehension but freeze the moment they see a page of calculations. Some will quietly whisper, “I’m just not good at maths,” whilst others become anxious before we’ve even looked at the first question.
The interesting thing is that very few of these children actually lack mathematical ability.
More often than not, what they’re lacking is confidence.
Once children begin believing they “can’t do maths”, that belief can quickly become the biggest obstacle to their progress. Fortunately, confidence isn’t something children either have or don’t have. Like mathematical skills themselves, it can be developed with the right support, encouragement and experiences.
Why Maths Confidence Matters
Primary school is where children build the foundations for future mathematical learning.
Whether they’re learning number bonds, multiplication tables, fractions or problem-solving, every new concept builds on previous knowledge. When confidence is low, children often avoid taking risks, rush through questions or give up before they’ve really started.
I’ve found that many children who struggle in maths aren’t afraid of numbers themselves. They’re afraid of making mistakes.
That fear can become surprisingly powerful.
A child who worries about getting an answer wrong may stop volunteering answers in class, avoid challenging questions or rely heavily on adults for reassurance. Over time, this can create the impression that maths is simply “not their subject”, when in reality they’re capable of much more than they realise.
Celebrate Effort, Not Just Correct Answers
One of the most effective ways to build confidence is to praise effort rather than perfection.
Imagine two children tackling the same problem. One gets the correct answer immediately. The other makes several mistakes but perseveres until they finally understand the method.
Which child has learnt more?
Quite often, it’s the second.
Learning maths involves making mistakes. Every incorrect answer provides information about what a child understands and what still needs developing.
When children realise mistakes are a normal part of learning rather than something to fear, they become much more willing to have a go.
Simple comments such as:
- “I really like how you kept trying.”
- “You chose a good strategy.”
- “Let’s work out together where it went wrong.”
can have a far greater impact than simply saying, “Well done.”
Make Maths Practical
Young children naturally learn through doing.
Abstract numbers on a worksheet can sometimes feel confusing, but place the same mathematical concept into a real-life situation and everything suddenly becomes much clearer.
Cooking together provides wonderful opportunities to explore measurement, fractions and weighing.
Shopping encourages children to estimate costs, compare prices and calculate change.
Building with bricks develops understanding of shape, patterns and spatial reasoning.
Even setting the table can become an opportunity to practise counting, multiplication and sharing equally.
When maths becomes part of everyday life, children begin to see that it has purpose beyond the classroom.
Build Confidence Through Small Successes
One of the biggest mistakes adults sometimes make is moving on too quickly.
Children need opportunities to experience success.
If every activity feels just beyond their current ability, confidence gradually begins to fade.
Instead, try to create a series of achievable challenges.
Perhaps today your child confidently adds two-digit numbers.
Tomorrow they might tackle three-digit numbers with support.
Next week they may begin solving simple word problems using the same skills.
These small successes gradually build into genuine mathematical confidence.
I’ve often seen children who initially describe themselves as “bad at maths” completely change their attitude after a few weeks of carefully structured learning. Nothing magical has happened. They’ve simply experienced enough success to start believing in themselves.
Keep Learning Enjoyable
One of my favourite ways to teach primary maths is through games.
Children often don’t realise how much mathematical thinking they’re doing when they’re enjoying themselves.
Card games encourage number recognition and quick mental calculations.
Board games develop counting, strategy and logical thinking.
Dice games build fluency with addition, subtraction and multiplication.
Even simple treasure hunts can involve measuring distances, following coordinates or solving mathematical clues.
When learning feels fun, children become much more willing to tackle new challenges.
This is particularly true for many neurodivergent learners, including children with ADHD, dyscalculia and autism, who often respond brilliantly to interactive, engaging activities rather than repetitive worksheets. Creating enjoyable learning experiences has always been central to my approach because motivation and confidence often grow together.
Encourage Mathematical Talk
Sometimes children know far more than they realise.
Instead of immediately asking for the answer, ask questions such as:
- “How did you work that out?”
- “Can you explain your thinking?”
- “Is there another way to solve it?”
- “How do you know your answer makes sense?”
Talking through mathematical thinking helps children organise their ideas whilst giving adults valuable insight into any misconceptions.
It also reinforces an important message:
Maths isn’t just about getting the right answer.
It’s about understanding.
Every Child Learns Differently
As someone who has worked with many children with ADHD, dyscalculia, dyslexia and autism, I’ve learnt that no two learners approach maths in exactly the same way.
Some children benefit from visual models.
Others need practical resources they can physically move.
Some need learning broken into smaller chunks, whilst others thrive when mathematical concepts are linked to their favourite interests.
The key is flexibility.
Rather than expecting every child to learn through one method, we should adapt our teaching to suit the learner sitting in front of us. This personalised, strengths-based approach is something I’ve found particularly valuable when supporting children with additional learning needs.
Confidence Lasts Longer Than Correct Answers
One thing I often remind parents is that confidence isn’t built in a single lesson.
It develops gradually through hundreds of positive learning experiences.
Each encouraging conversation.
Each problem solved.
Each moment when a child says, “I did it!”
Those moments matter far more than many people realise.
After all, children who believe they can succeed are far more likely to persevere when learning becomes challenging.
And that resilience will support them long after they’ve forgotten how to calculate fractions or complete long multiplication.
Here at Bedford Tutor and Kite Tutoring (the online division of Bedford Tutor), we have supported children in developing confidence in maths for many years. Whether a learner needs help with number sense, problem-solving, confidence building or support for ADHD, dyscalculia, dyslexia or autism, our personalised lessons are designed to make mathematics engaging, accessible and enjoyable. Every child deserves to feel capable of succeeding in maths, and with the right encouragement, they often achieve far more than they ever believed possible.
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GL Assessment English: Building Vocabulary Naturally
If your child is preparing for a GL Assessment English paper, you’ve probably wondered how to help them improve their vocabulary. Many parents imagine they need to buy expensive vocabulary books or spend hours memorising long lists of unfamiliar words. Whilst learning new vocabulary is certainly important, that isn’t how most children develop a rich and lasting understanding of language.
Having worked with many children preparing for GL Assessments, one thing has become very clear to me. The children who make the greatest progress are usually those who encounter new words naturally through reading, conversation, games and everyday experiences. Vocabulary isn’t simply about knowing a definition. It’s about understanding how words are used, recognising them in different contexts and feeling confident enough to use them in both speech and writing.
The good news is that building vocabulary doesn’t have to feel like hard work. In fact, some of the most effective learning happens when children don’t even realise they’re practising.
Why Vocabulary Matters in GL Assessment English
Vocabulary underpins almost every part of the English assessment.
A broad vocabulary helps children to:
- Understand reading comprehension passages.
- Work out the meaning of unfamiliar words.
- Answer inference questions more confidently.
- Recognise subtle differences between similar words.
- Write with greater precision and imagination.
Sometimes one unfamiliar word can make an entire paragraph difficult to understand. Equally, a child with a wide vocabulary often finds it easier to identify clues within a text and make sensible predictions about what an author is trying to say.
Fortunately, vocabulary grows steadily over time, making it one of the easiest areas to improve through enjoyable daily habits rather than intensive last-minute revision.
Read Widely and Read Often
If I could recommend just one activity for building vocabulary, it would be reading.
Books expose children to thousands of words they may never encounter in everyday conversation. Unlike vocabulary lists, stories provide context. They show how words behave, the emotions they convey and how different authors use language to create atmosphere.
Encourage your child to read a wide variety of material, including:
- Adventure stories
- Mystery novels
- Non-fiction books
- Children’s magazines
- Newspapers aimed at young readers
- Biographies
- Poetry
Each genre introduces different vocabulary and helps children become more flexible readers.
One thing I always reassure parents about is that children don’t need to understand every unfamiliar word immediately. Often, simply seeing a word several times allows its meaning to become clear naturally.
Talk About New Words
Vocabulary learning doesn’t stop when the book closes.
Whenever an interesting word appears whilst reading together, watching television or even chatting at home, take a moment to explore it.
You might ask:
- What do you think that word means?
- Can we work it out from the sentence?
- Have you heard anything similar before?
- Can you think of another word with the same meaning?
These relaxed conversations often develop a much deeper understanding than asking a child to memorise a dictionary definition.
Sometimes we even discuss why an author has chosen one word instead of another. Why describe a character as furious rather than simply cross? Why write whispered instead of said? These conversations help children appreciate how carefully chosen words create stronger writing.
Make Vocabulary Part of Everyday Conversation
One of the easiest ways to build vocabulary is simply by using richer language yourself.
Vocabulary doesn’t belong only in English lessons.
Some of the best conversations happen during car journeys, whilst walking the dog or sitting around the dinner table.
Instead of always choosing familiar words, naturally introduce more ambitious vocabulary into everyday speech.
Rather than saying something is big, you might describe it as enormous, vast or immense.
Instead of saying someone is happy, perhaps they’re delighted, thrilled, content or ecstatic.
Children gradually absorb these words because they hear them being used naturally.
Over time, they begin to use them themselves.
Play Vocabulary Games
One of the biggest misconceptions about vocabulary building is that children need to sit quietly with worksheets.
In reality, some of the best vocabulary learning happens through games.
One activity I regularly play with students is a vocabulary version of I Spy.
Rather than saying, “I spy with my little eye something beginning with B,” I’ll ask them to find something that is transparent, circular, fragile, tiny, gigantic, ancient or colourful.
Sometimes we’ll choose one object and think of as many describing words as we possibly can.
A tree might become towering, leafy, gnarled, majestic, windswept or ancient.
Not only does this build vocabulary, but it also encourages children to observe the world around them more carefully. The game quickly becomes less about spotting objects and more about selecting exactly the right word.
Children usually don’t even realise they’re practising English.
We also enjoy playing synonym challenges, category games and “Can you think of a better word?” These simple activities encourage children to become curious about language rather than seeing vocabulary as something to memorise.
Learn One New Word Every Day
One of my favourite routines is learning just one new word each day.
Rather than overwhelming children with long vocabulary lists, we choose a single interesting word and spend time exploring it properly.
We discuss:
- What the word means.
- Where it might be used.
- Whether it has any synonyms or antonyms.
- How we could use it naturally in conversation.
- Whether we’ve heard it before in a book or film.
Sometimes we challenge ourselves to use the word several times during the lesson.
For example, if our word of the day is reluctant, we might talk about being reluctant to tidy our bedrooms, reluctant to try a new food or reluctant to leave for school after a holiday.
Connecting vocabulary to real experiences makes the word much more memorable than simply copying out a definition.
The results soon add up.
One new word every day becomes seven each week, dozens every month and hundreds over the course of a year.
Keep a Favourite Words Notebook
Many children enjoy collecting words they find interesting.
Rather than writing endless lists, encourage your child to keep a notebook filled only with words they genuinely like.
They could include:
- The new word.
- Its meaning.
- A sentence using it.
- A small picture to help remember it.
- Similar words.
Because the words are personally meaningful, they’re often remembered far more easily.
It’s also lovely to look back through the notebook after a few months and see just how much vocabulary has been learnt.
Become a Word Detective
Children preparing for GL Assessments don’t need to know every word they encounter.
Instead, they need the confidence to work out unfamiliar vocabulary independently.
I often encourage children to become “word detectives”.
When they come across an unfamiliar word, we look for clues.
Can we spot a familiar prefix or suffix?
Does the rest of the sentence help?
Does the word remind us of another word we already know?
Developing these detective skills helps children approach challenging texts with confidence rather than immediately giving up.
Build Vocabulary Through Real Life
Some of the strongest vocabulary learning happens away from books altogether.
A visit to a museum introduces historical language.
Cooking together teaches words such as measure, combine, whisk and simmer.
Nature walks introduce vocabulary like habitat, camouflage, predator, migration and evergreen.
Shopping provides opportunities to discuss words such as budget, compare, quality and ingredients.
Because children experience these words in real situations, they often remember them much more successfully.
Final Thoughts
Preparing for a GL Assessment English paper isn’t about cramming hundreds of ambitious words the week before the assessment.
Vocabulary develops steadily through reading, conversation, curiosity and enjoyable everyday experiences.
Some of the richest learning happens during simple moments: spotting descriptive words during a game of I Spy, discussing an unfamiliar word whilst reading together or discovering a new “Word of the Day” and finding opportunities to use it naturally.
These small habits gradually build the confidence children need when they encounter unfamiliar vocabulary in their GL Assessments. More importantly, they help children become thoughtful readers, confident writers and lifelong lovers of language.
In my experience, children make the greatest progress when learning feels like an adventure rather than another task on the to-do list.
Here at Kite Tutoring, the online division of Bedford Tutor, we have supported many children preparing for GL Assessments in international schools around the world. We specialise in supporting learners with SEND, including ADHD, dyslexia, dyscalculia and autism, as well as children who are learning English as a second or additional language. Through engaging, personalised lessons, we help students develop rich vocabularies alongside their reading comprehension, grammar and writing skills. Whether your child is preparing for an upcoming GL Assessment or simply wants to become a more confident reader and writer, our lessons are designed to make learning enjoyable whilst building the skills they need to succeed.
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Hello, I’m Annabel Louise Walker, founder of Bedford Tutor and its online division, Kite Tutoring.
For over fourteen years, I have supported children and young people with a wide range of educational needs, abilities and learning styles through personalised English and maths tuition.
I work with school students, home-educated learners and children following the British Curriculum, American Curriculum and international educational programmes. I have particular experience supporting learners with ADHD, autism, dyslexia, dyscalculia, executive functioning challenges, confidence difficulties and anxiety around learning.
As someone with ADHD myself, I understand that every learner is different. This personal insight, combined with my professional experience, has shaped a strengths-based approach that focuses on helping students feel understood, valued and capable.
Through these articles, I share practical advice, educational insights and supportive strategies for parents, home educators and students. My aim is to make learning more accessible, build confidence and help every child reach their potential in a way that works for them.
Things I Truly Believe About Living with ADHD
- ADHD is not a lack of intelligence. Many children know far more than they can show on paper.
- A child who struggles to start a task is not necessarily unmotivated. Task initiation is often the hardest part.
- Confidence is just as important as academic progress. Children learn best when they believe they can succeed.
- Every ADHD learner deserves to be understood before they are judged.
- Different doesn’t mean less. It often means a different route to the same destination.
- Movement, curiosity and conversation are valuable learning tools, not distractions.
- The best strategies work with an ADHD brain rather than trying to change it.
- Success should never be measured only by test scores. Persistence, creativity, resilience and kindness matter too.
- Children don’t need to earn support by struggling first. Early help builds confidence.
- Small changes in the learning environment can make a remarkable difference.
- Routine provides security, but flexibility allows children to thrive.
- Interests aren’t distractions. They are often the doorway into learning.
- Every child has strengths worth celebrating, even when those strengths aren’t immediately obvious.
- Progress is rarely a straight line. A difficult day doesn’t erase weeks of growth.
- Parents know their child better than anyone. Their insights should always be valued.
- ADHD affects every child differently. There is no single “ADHD child.”
- Learning should feel safe enough for mistakes, questions and trying again.
- The goal isn’t to create perfect learners. It’s to help children become confident, independent young people.
- Children remember how learning made them feel long after they’ve forgotten the worksheet.
- With patience, understanding and the right support, children with ADHD can flourish in ways that reflect who they are, not who others expect them to be.
“I don’t believe children need fixing. I believe they need understanding, the right strategies and someone who believes in them until they begin to believe in themselves.”
Living with ADHD isn’t about finding a quick fix or expecting children to fit into a one-size-fits-all approach. It’s about understanding how they learn, recognising their unique strengths and providing strategies that genuinely work for them. With patience, encouragement and the right support, children with ADHD can build confidence, develop independence and discover that success doesn’t come from thinking like everyone else, but from learning in a way that allows them to thrive.