ADHD and Primary English: Helping Children Share Their Ideas with Confidence

Young girl creating a colourful mind map while writing and organising her ideas at home.

One of the things I love most about teaching English is discovering what is going on inside a child’s imagination.

Sometimes the ideas are enormous.

A child can tell you an incredibly detailed story about a dragon who lives underneath their school, explain exactly what happened to every character and describe the ending with complete confidence. Then you put a piece of paper in front of them and say, “Now write it down.”

Suddenly, the story seems to disappear.

For many children with ADHD, the difficulty isn’t necessarily coming up with ideas. In fact, some ADHD children have lots of ideas. The challenge can be organising those ideas, holding onto them in working memory and turning them into a structured piece of writing.

As someone with ADHD myself, this is something I understand very personally.

ADHD and English: When the ideas are bigger than the page

ADHD is often associated with difficulties around attention, organisation, working memory and executive functioning. However, ADHD looks different in every person. As I have written previously, my own ADHD has never fitted neatly into the stereotypical picture. I could be highly organised and successful academically whilst still experiencing very real difficulties with listening, distraction and managing certain tasks.

Writing at school was one of those areas where I could sometimes see the problem quite clearly.

I have always loved writing. I was naturally drawn towards words and stories, and I still write frequently today. I particularly love writing poems because poetry allows me to take an emotion and share it quickly through words.

Yet being naturally drawn to writing didn’t mean that I always found school writing easy.

I often didn’t follow plans or instructions effectively, and this could cost me marks. I might understand the subject, have plenty of ideas and genuinely enjoy the task, but somewhere between the instruction, the planning and the finished piece, something would go missing.

Looking back now, I can see how much easier some of those tasks might have been if I had been shown ways of getting my ideas out of my head before worrying about producing the “perfect” written answer.

Try telling the story before writing it

One of my favourite approaches with ADHD learners is wonderfully simple:

Let them talk.

Many ADHD children absolutely love verbalising their ideas. Talking can be a brilliant way of getting thoughts out of the brain and making them more concrete.

If a child is asked to write a story about a mysterious door, for example, I might start by asking:

“What is behind the door?”

They might tell me about a secret laboratory, a talking cat, a spaceship and a forgotten treasure map.

Excellent!

We have a story.

At this point, I don’t want to interrupt that flow by immediately asking them to write a paragraph.

Instead, we can talk through what happens first, next and finally.

That verbal rehearsal can help bring ideas into working memory before we try to capture them on paper. It also allows me to hear what the child actually understands. Sometimes the spoken story is considerably more sophisticated than the written one.

That tells me something important.

The child may not have a language problem at all. They may simply need help transferring their ideas into written form.

Drawing can unlock ideas too

Talking isn’t the only way to get ideas out.

Drawing can be incredibly powerful.

Some children find it much easier to draw what they are imagining before they attempt to describe it. This can be particularly useful for story writing.

A child might draw:

  • the setting
  • the main character
  • the problem
  • something important that happens
  • the ending

We can then use the picture as a springboard for sentences.

I have seen children who initially say, “I don’t know what to write,” suddenly become incredibly animated once they are allowed to draw.

And that’s the important bit.

We aren’t avoiding writing.

We are finding a route into writing.

Visual mind maps can make writing feel manageable

Another strategy I regularly use is the humble mind map.

For an ADHD learner, a blank page can sometimes feel enormous. There are too many possible places to start.

A visual mind map gives those thoughts somewhere to land.

For example, if we are writing a story about a lost child, we might put THE LOST CHILD in the centre and branch out into:

Where?
A forest.

Who?
Mia and her dog.

Problem?
They cannot find the path home.

What happens?
They discover an abandoned cottage.

Ending?
They find their way home by following the stars.

Suddenly, the child doesn’t have to remember the whole story.

The ideas are visible.

This is particularly helpful when organisation and sequencing are difficult.

Visual mind map showing how a lost-child story can be organised into setting, characters, problem, events and ending, helping ADHD learners make writing more manageable.

Story planning needs to be practical

I also love using structured story planning resources. We particularly enjoy the story planning documents available through Twinkl because they can make planning feel much more engaging and manageable.

One thing I frequently notice with ADHD learners is that planning and follow-through can be two very different things.

A child might enthusiastically plan an incredible story and then struggle to actually use the plan when writing it.

This is where smaller steps can help.

Instead of saying, “Now write your story,” we might work through:

  1. Write the opening.
  2. Introduce the character.
  3. Explain the problem.
  4. Add an interesting event.
  5. Bring the story towards an ending.
  6. Read it back and improve one section.

The aim isn’t to make writing rigid.

It is to give the child’s ideas a little scaffolding so they don’t disappear halfway through the task.

My own love of writing eventually became my career

Writing has always been part of my life.

In my twenties, I wrote two books (Storme and Spectrum Shift) which I self-published. That experience helped me realise just how much I loved creating stories and putting ideas into words, and it ultimately contributed to me discovering my passion for becoming an English tutor.

I still write poems regularly.

For me, poetry is a particularly lovely form of expression because sometimes an emotion is complicated, messy and difficult to explain. A few carefully chosen words can somehow capture it.

I think this is one of the reasons I enjoy teaching English to children with ADHD so much.

There is something wonderful about watching a child realise that their ideas matter.

ADHD, dyslexia and other forms of neurodivergence

ADHD also doesn’t always appear on its own.

Children with ADHD may also have dyslexia, dyscalculia, autism or other forms of neurodivergence. These differences can overlap, although having ADHD does not automatically mean a child will have another diagnosis.

This is important because difficulties with writing can have many different causes.

A child may struggle with organising ideas because of executive functioning difficulties. Another may find spelling and written language particularly challenging because of dyslexia. Another may have excellent ideas but become overwhelmed by the process of getting everything onto the page.

This is why I don’t believe in a single “ADHD writing strategy”.

The starting point should always be the child.

What happens when they talk?

What happens when they draw?

Can they explain the story verbally?

Do they need a visual plan?

Would a mind map help?

Could they dictate their first ideas before writing them?

Once we understand where the difficulty is happening, we can start finding strategies that genuinely help.

English should help children find their voice

Ultimately, primary English isn’t just about spelling tests, handwriting and writing stories that contain the correct number of paragraphs.

It is about communication.

It is about helping children take the fascinating thoughts inside their heads and share them with somebody else.

For an ADHD child, that process may need to look slightly different.

Perhaps the story starts with a conversation.

Perhaps it begins with a drawing.

Perhaps it grows through a colourful mind map before becoming a paragraph.

Perhaps the child tells the whole story aloud first and then writes it down.

None of these approaches mean that we are lowering expectations.

We are simply giving the child a bridge between having the idea and being able to express it.

And sometimes, that bridge is exactly what a child needs to discover that they really are a writer.

Helping ADHD children become confident writers

After years of working with children with ADHD, dyslexia and other learning differences, I have become increasingly convinced that confidence is one of the most important ingredients in successful learning.

When a child repeatedly experiences writing as something they cannot do, they can quickly begin to avoid it.

But when we show them that their ideas are valuable, give them practical ways to organise those ideas and celebrate the progress they make, their attitude can change.

The child who once said, “I don’t know what to write,” may suddenly have a story to tell.

And once they have a story to tell, we can help them find the words.


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  • Home Education: Positive Ways to Make Learning Fun

    Home education offers something that traditional schooling cannot always provide: freedom.

    Freedom to slow down when something is difficult. Freedom to explore an unexpected interest. Freedom to spend a morning outside, learn through conversation or return to a subject when a child is ready.

    But there can also be a funny little trap.

    Once you have made the decision to home educate, it is very easy to feel that you now have to recreate school at home.

    There are timetables. Worksheets. Workbooks. Spelling lists. Tests. Perhaps even a small desk in the corner which slowly begins to resemble a miniature classroom.

    And whilst structure can be incredibly helpful, particularly for some children, home education does not have to feel like school.

    In fact, for many children, particularly those with ADHD, dyslexia, dyscalculia, autism or low confidence, one of the greatest advantages of home education is being able to find a way of learning which feels natural to them.

    Home education does not need to look like school

    One of the things I love most about supporting home-educated children is the freedom to adapt learning.

    Over the years, I have worked with home-educated learners across the UK and internationally, and I have seen just how different their educational journeys can be. Some children love routine and feel reassured by knowing exactly what will happen next. Others become much more engaged when learning is flexible, creative and connected to their interests.

    Neither approach is wrong.

    The important thing is finding what works for the child.

    A child who loves dinosaurs might practise reading by exploring dinosaur facts. A child fascinated by baking can develop mathematical skills through weighing ingredients and working with fractions. Another child might discover that writing becomes much easier when they are allowed to create a story about their favourite game or animal.

    The learning is still happening.

    It simply does not always look like a traditional lesson.

    Follow the interest

    One of the simplest ways to make learning feel less like school is to pay attention to what your child is already interested in.

    This does not mean abandoning the curriculum.

    It means using curiosity as the doorway into it.

    If your child is fascinated by space, for example, you might explore non-fiction reading, new vocabulary, descriptive writing, research skills and even mathematical problems involving planets.

    If they love animals, you could read animal stories, compare sizes and measurements, write descriptions, create charts or investigate habitats.

    Children are often far more willing to practise a skill when they can see a reason for using it.

    This is particularly valuable for children who have previously struggled with motivation or confidence. In Kite Tutoring sessions, I regularly use games, challenges, creative activities and discussion because engagement is often the key to successful learning.

    Learning through play is still learning

    Sometimes parents worry that if learning is fun, it cannot possibly be rigorous.

    I understand why.

    We are used to thinking about education as something which happens at a desk, with a pencil in one hand and a worksheet in the other.

    But children can learn an enormous amount through play, conversation and practical experiences.

    A game involving money can develop mathematical reasoning. Building something can involve measurement, planning and problem-solving. Playing a word game can strengthen vocabulary and spelling. Cooking can involve fractions, sequencing and reading instructions.

    For some dyslexic learners, making words physically using magnetic letters, wooden blocks or other hands-on resources can make learning much more meaningful than simply copying words from a page. Creative associations and visual approaches can also help ideas stick.

    The activity may look like play.

    Underneath it, there may be a great deal of learning taking place.

    Do not be afraid of flexibility

    One of the greatest advantages of home education is being able to learn at the child’s pace.

    Perhaps your child understands fractions immediately but needs several weeks to become comfortable with spelling.

    Perhaps they are full of energy in the morning but concentrate beautifully after lunch.

    Perhaps they need movement between activities rather than sitting still for an hour.

    Home education gives families the opportunity to respond to those differences rather than constantly asking the child to fit a predetermined timetable.

    This can be especially helpful for neurodivergent learners.

    Children with ADHD, for example, may benefit from movement, visual resources, interactive activities and smaller chunks of learning. Others may need additional processing time, practical examples or opportunities to revisit a concept without feeling that they have fallen behind.

    The aim is not to remove structure completely.

    It is to create the right structure.

    Keep some routine, but leave room to breathe

    Interestingly, making learning feel less like school does not necessarily mean having no routine.

    Some children thrive on predictability.

    A simple rhythm to the day can provide reassurance: breakfast, reading, outdoor time, maths, lunch, creative activity, perhaps some independent work.

    The key is allowing the routine to breathe.

    If an interesting conversation develops over breakfast, perhaps that becomes part of the day’s learning.

    If your child is deeply absorbed in a project, perhaps you do not need to stop simply because the timetable says it is time to move on.

    And if everyone is exhausted, sometimes the most sensible educational decision is to step away from the books.

    Learning does not stop because the timetable does.

    Protect confidence as carefully as you protect progress

    This is something I feel particularly strongly about.

    Academic progress matters, but so does the child’s relationship with learning.

    Many children arrive at home education after difficult experiences in traditional educational environments. Some have begun to believe that they are “bad” at reading, maths or school generally.

    That can take time to undo.

    For these children, success might initially look very small.

    Reading a paragraph without giving up.

    Attempting a difficult maths problem.

    Writing three sentences independently.

    Asking for help instead of saying, “I can’t do it.”

    These moments matter.

    When children feel understood and supported, they are more willing to make mistakes, ask questions and take risks with their learning. Our approach at Kite Tutoring is deliberately strengths-based, with the aim of helping learners feel capable as well as developing their academic skills.

    Confidence is not an optional extra.

    It is part of learning.

    What if my child still needs academic support?

    Home education does not mean parents have to do everything alone.

    Sometimes a child simply needs another person who understands their learning profile and can provide additional structure without recreating the school environment.

    One-to-one tuition can be particularly useful when lessons are personalised around the child’s pace, interests and strengths. Online learning can also provide flexibility for home-educated families, including those living overseas or following British, American or international programmes.

    The important thing is that additional tuition should complement home education rather than turning it into another version of school.

    A good lesson might involve discussion, games, visual explanations, practical activities and plenty of encouragement alongside the academic content.

    There is room for both learning and enjoyment.

    Home education is allowed to be different

    Perhaps the most important thing I would say to any parent beginning or continuing a home education journey is this:

    You do not have to prove that your child is learning by making home look like school.

    Education can happen around the kitchen table, on a walk, through a conversation, during a game, while cooking or through a subject that your child suddenly becomes completely fascinated by.

    Of course, there will be times when structured learning is important. There may be qualifications to work towards, specific English or maths skills to develop, or Functional Skills assessments to prepare for.

    But even then, learning does not have to become joyless.

    After all, the whole point of home education is often to create an educational experience which genuinely meets the needs of the individual child.

    Sometimes the most successful learning happens when we stop asking, “How can I make this look like school?” and start asking, “How can I help my child learn in a way that works for them?”

    A little support can make a big difference


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  • Morphology for Dyslexia: Powerful Ways to Improve Spelling

    When most people think about improving spelling, they imagine practising word lists over and over again.

    For many children, particularly those with dyslexia, that approach can quickly become repetitive, frustrating and, ultimately, ineffective.

    Over the years, I’ve found that one of the best ways to help children become more confident spellers is to help them understand why words are built the way they are. Rather than relying solely on memorisation, we explore the building blocks of language itself.

    This is where morphology becomes such a powerful learning tool.

    Although we’ve been incorporating elements of morphology into our tuition for many years through our Diamond Spelling & Reading Programme, from September we’ll be expanding this aspect of our lessons even further, giving children even more opportunities to discover the fascinating stories hidden inside words.

    What Is Morphology?

    Morphology is simply the study of the parts that make up words.

    Many English words are built from prefixes, suffixes and root words. Once children begin to recognise these patterns, spelling starts to feel far less random.

    Instead of seeing a long, unfamiliar word as one enormous challenge, they begin to spot familiar pieces they already know.

    For example, understanding that helpful, careful and playful all share the suffix -ful helps children make connections between words rather than learning each one in isolation.

    Likewise, recognising prefixes such as un-, re- or dis- allows children to decode and spell new vocabulary with much greater confidence.

    Rather than memorising hundreds of individual spellings, they start recognising the patterns that link them together.

    Why Morphology Can Be Particularly Helpful for Dyslexic Learners

    Many children with dyslexia are excellent pattern spotters.

    Once they begin recognising how words fit together, spelling often becomes much more logical and far less overwhelming.

    Instead of asking, “How do I remember this word?”, they begin asking, “What parts can I already recognise?”

    That small shift in thinking can make a remarkable difference.

    Morphology also supports vocabulary development and reading comprehension. As children learn what different roots and affixes mean, they often find it much easier to work out the meanings of unfamiliar words when reading independently.

    It’s another example of one skill supporting several areas of literacy at once.

    Making Spelling Memorable Through Creativity

    One thing I’ve learnt over the years is that children rarely remember something simply because they’ve copied it twenty times.

    They remember experiences.

    That’s why creativity plays such an important role in my lessons.

    If we’re learning a new root word, we might draw it as a cartoon character. If we’re exploring a prefix, we may invent a silly story explaining where it came from. Sometimes we’ll create ridiculous sentences that make everyone laugh, because humour has a wonderful way of helping information stick in our memories.

    Drawing, storytelling and imaginative activities transform spelling from something children have to do into something they actually enjoy.

    Many neurodivergent learners are highly visual thinkers, and creating funny images or memorable stories often helps words stay in long-term memory far more effectively than repetition alone.

    The more senses involved in learning, the more opportunities the brain has to create lasting connections.

    Learning Should Be Fun

    This has always been one of my guiding principles.

    Children learn best when they are engaged.

    Over the years, we’ve used games, visual resources, discussion, word-building activities and creative challenges to help children understand how English works. Morphology has quietly been part of that process for a long time, even if we haven’t always labelled it as such.

    From September, however, we’ll be placing an even greater emphasis on exploring word families, roots, prefixes and suffixes in a structured but highly creative way.

    The aim isn’t simply to improve spelling accuracy.

    It’s to help children become curious about language.

    When children begin asking questions like, “Why does that word end like that?” or “Where did this word come from?”, they’re no longer just memorising spellings. They’re becoming language detectives.

    Looking Ahead to September

    One student I’m particularly excited to continue working with is a wonderful young learner I tutor online in Dubai, UAE.

    We’ve already made fantastic progress in developing confidence with reading and spelling, and from September we’ll be exploring morphology in much greater depth together. I can’t wait to see the connections they begin making as they discover how words are built and how those patterns can make spelling both easier and far more enjoyable.

    Watching those moments of understanding is one of the greatest pleasures of teaching.

    Suddenly, words that once seemed impossible begin to make sense.

    Confidence grows.

    And perhaps most importantly of all, children begin to realise that spelling isn’t simply about remembering random letters. It’s about understanding a wonderfully interconnected language that is full of patterns, history and fascinating discoveries waiting to be explored.

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  • What Are GL Assessments? A Parent’s Guide for International School Families

    ​If you have a child attending an international school, there is a good chance you have heard the term “GL Assessment” mentioned at some point.

    Perhaps your child’s school uses GL tests to monitor progress. Maybe your child is preparing for entrance assessments at an international school. Or perhaps you’ve simply heard other parents talking about GL assessments and wondered what all the fuss is about.

    Over the years, I have worked with many children attending international schools and, more recently, I have been supporting a number of students who are preparing for their GL assessments. One thing I have quickly discovered is that the words “assessment” and “test” often cause far more anxiety in parents than they do in children!

    The reality is that GL assessments are simply designed to measure a child’s current attainment and identify areas of strength alongside areas that may require further development.

    What Exactly Are GL Assessments?

    GL Assessment is an organisation which produces a range of standardised tests used by schools throughout the UK and across the world.

    Many international schools use GL assessments because they provide useful information about a child’s progress in areas such as:

    • Reading
    • English
    • Mathematics
    • Verbal Reasoning
    • Non-Verbal Reasoning
    • Spelling, Grammar and Punctuation

    Schools can then use this information to identify strengths, monitor progress and ensure students are receiving the support they need.

    Although the assessments themselves vary depending on the school and age group, they are generally designed to assess skills children have developed over time rather than knowledge they have memorised the night before.

    Should Parents Be Worried About GL Assessments?

    In a word: no.

    As someone who has worked with many children preparing for these assessments, I have found that confidence is often far more important than cramming.

    Children tend to perform best when they feel relaxed, prepared and familiar with the types of questions they may encounter.

    Unfortunately, some children hear the word “test” and immediately imagine something frightening. Before they have even opened the paper, they are already worrying about whether they will get questions wrong.

    I completely understand this.

    When I was at school, I often worried about assessments despite genuinely enjoying learning. Looking back, I realise that confidence can have a surprisingly large impact on performance.

    How Can Parents Help?

    One of the best ways parents can help is by keeping learning positive.

    Children learn far more effectively when they are engaged and interested in what they are doing. This is particularly true for many neurodivergent learners, including children with ADHD, dyslexia and other learning differences.

    Currently, I am tutoring several students who are studying for their GL assessments and one thing I always try to do is make the learning process enjoyable.

    Rather than spending entire lessons completing practice papers, we often learn through games, challenges and interactive activities.

    For example, grammar and punctuation can sometimes feel dry and repetitive when taught through worksheets alone. However, when these same skills are practised through games, quizzes and creative challenges, children often become far more motivated to learn.

    Not only does this help them master new topics, but it also provides valuable opportunities to revisit and consolidate previously-learnt material.

    Learning should never feel like a punishment.

    In my experience, children make the greatest progress when they are having fun.

    What Skills Are Assessed?

    Although every assessment is slightly different, many GL tests focus on the core skills children use every day in school.

    Reading assessments may explore comprehension, vocabulary and inference skills.

    English assessments often include grammar, punctuation and spelling.

    Mathematics assessments typically focus on reasoning, problem-solving and mathematical understanding.

    Some schools also use verbal and non-verbal reasoning assessments, which look at how children identify patterns, solve problems and think logically.

    The good news is that these are all skills which develop gradually over time.

    Preparing Without Pressure

    One of the biggest misconceptions about GL assessments is that preparation needs to be intense.

    In reality, steady and consistent practice is often far more effective.

    Reading regularly, discussing new vocabulary, developing mathematical fluency and building confidence with grammar and punctuation can all make a significant difference.

    Most importantly, children need to understand that an assessment is simply a snapshot of where they are at a particular moment in time.

    It does not define their intelligence, their potential or their future success.

    Final Thoughts

    Having worked with children from a variety of international schools, I have seen first-hand how common GL assessments have become across the international education sector.

    Whilst the assessments themselves are important, I believe confidence, curiosity and a positive attitude towards learning remain far more valuable in the long term.

    When children feel supported, engaged and motivated, they are much more likely to achieve their potential both inside and outside the assessment room.

    After all, the goal is not simply to achieve a high score on a test.

    The goal is to help children become confident, capable learners who enjoy the process of learning itself.

    Here at Bedford Tutor, I have supported many children preparing for GL Assessments in international schools overseas. Through helping students develop their reading, grammar, punctuation, vocabulary and reasoning skills, I have created engaging lessons that build confidence whilst ensuring children feel fully prepared for the challenges these assessments can bring.

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  • Supporting ADHD Learners in International Schools

    What is ADHD?

    When most people think of ADHD, they picture a child who can’t sit still, constantly interrupts and bounces from one activity to the next. Whilst that can certainly be part of the picture, ADHD is far more complex than many people realise.

    Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) is a neurodevelopmental condition which affects attention, organisation, impulse control and executive functioning. However, no two people experience it in exactly the same way.

    I wasn’t diagnosed with ADHD until I was 31. Looking back, the signs were there in bright neon lights. I was energetic, excitable, impulsive and intensely curious about almost everything. I struggled with multi-step instructions, often forgot things that had been said to me moments earlier and found repetitive tasks about as appealing as watching paint dry. Yet I also did well in school, loved learning and was often described as organised and conscientious. For years, those apparent contradictions stopped me from recognising my own ADHD.

    That experience taught me something important: ADHD doesn’t look the same in every child.

    In international schools, where learners arrive with different languages, cultures, educational experiences and life stories, it is especially important to look beyond stereotypes. The child who constantly calls out answers may have ADHD. Equally, the child quietly staring out of the window, lost in a world of their own, may be experiencing exactly the same condition.

    How Does ADHD Affect Learners?

    One of the greatest misconceptions about ADHD is that it is simply a problem with paying attention. In reality, it is often a difficulty with regulating attention.

    Many ADHD learners can focus brilliantly when something captures their imagination. As a child, I could happily spend hours immersed in a topic which fascinated me. If a lesson sparked my curiosity, I was fully engaged and often had more questions than anyone else in the room. However, if a task felt repetitive, disconnected from my interests or required sustained concentration, keeping my attention on it could feel like trying to hold onto a handful of sand.

    ADHD can affect working memory, organisation, emotional regulation, time management and task initiation. A child may know exactly what they need to do but struggle to get started. They may understand the instructions but forget half of them by the time they reach their desk. They may desperately want to succeed whilst appearing disengaged on the surface.

    Sadly, these difficulties are often misunderstood. Many ADHD learners spend years being told they are careless, lazy or not trying hard enough. I remember making mistakes which seemed obvious in hindsight and feeling frustrated because I genuinely was trying. The gap between what I knew I could do and what I actually managed to produce was often a source of anxiety.

    Creating ADHD-Friendly Learning Environments

    The good news is that many of the strategies which help ADHD learners also benefit other students.

    Clear routines can be incredibly powerful. Predictability reduces cognitive load and frees up mental energy for learning. Visual timetables, checklists and step-by-step instructions provide useful anchors throughout the day. Breaking larger tasks into smaller chunks can transform an overwhelming mountain into a series of manageable hills.

    The classroom environment also matters. ADHD learners often notice everything. A flickering light, a conversation in the corridor or a bird landing outside the window can suddenly become the most interesting thing in the universe. Simple adjustments such as thoughtful seating plans, reduced visual clutter and access to quieter workspaces can make a remarkable difference.

    Movement is equally important. Throughout my own education, opportunities to move helped me concentrate far more effectively. Some of my clearest memories involve lessons where activity was built into the learning process. Children were never designed to sit perfectly still for hours on end and many ADHD learners think best when their bodies are allowed to move.

    The Power of Understanding

    Perhaps the most important support schools can provide is understanding.
    Many ADHD learners experience frequent setbacks and begin to view themselves through the lens of their difficulties rather than their strengths. A child who hears constant corrections can eventually start believing they are the problem.

    The teachers I remember most fondly were not necessarily the strictest or the most knowledgeable. They were the ones who noticed what I did well. They recognised my enthusiasm, creativity and determination. They celebrated small successes and helped me see strengths which I couldn’t always recognise in myself.

    In international schools, this understanding becomes even more important. When children are learning in a language that is not their first language, attention difficulties can sometimes be confused with language barriers and vice versa. Close collaboration between teachers, families and specialists helps ensure that support is both accurate and effective.

    Ultimately, supporting ADHD learners is not about fixing children. It is about understanding them.

    When schools embrace neurodiversity and recognise that every brain works differently, they create environments where all learners can flourish. Sometimes the most powerful support is not a complex intervention or expensive resource. Sometimes it is simply helping a child understand that there is nothing wrong with the way their brain works and giving them the tools they need to shine.

    Here at Bedford Tutor, we have been working with children who have ADHD for over fourteen years; being neurodivergent myself has helped me create a style of tuition that works to the strengths of the ADHD brain.

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  • Home Education British Curriculum: Helpful Tips

    Home education can be an incredibly rewarding way of learning.

    It can give children the freedom to explore subjects in greater depth, learn at their own pace and spend more time developing the things they are genuinely interested in. For some families, it provides an opportunity to create an education that fits around the child rather than expecting the child to fit into a traditional school environment.

    But I also know that home education can leave parents with plenty of questions.

    Are we covering enough?

    Is my child making the progress they should be?

    How do I make sure they develop the English and maths skills they need?

    What happens if they have additional learning needs?

    And perhaps one of the biggest questions of all: how do I make learning work for my particular child?

    Having supported home-educated children for many years, these are questions I understand very well. I have worked with learners studying a wide variety of subjects and following the British Curriculum, as well as children following other educational programmes around the world.

    And one thing I have learnt repeatedly is that there is no single way to make home education work.

    The child has to come first.

    Home education doesn’t have to look like school

    One of the things I love most about working with home-educated students is the freedom.

    Learning doesn’t necessarily have to mean sitting at a desk completing worksheet after worksheet. In fact, some children become far more engaged when we take an idea from their own interests and use it as a starting point for learning.

    A child who loves animals might explore descriptive writing through an imaginary wildlife documentary.

    A student fascinated by football might develop mathematical skills through statistics, averages, percentages and graphs.

    A child interested in history might discover that their passion provides a wonderful starting point for reading comprehension, vocabulary, research and extended writing.

    Someone who loves gaming might develop problem-solving and logical thinking through mathematics, while also using their interests as inspiration for creative writing.

    The curriculum still matters. Children need to develop important knowledge and skills. But the route we take to get there can be much more flexible.

    Over the years, I have found that when children are genuinely interested in what they are learning, they often become far more willing to tackle the things they previously found difficult.

    That is particularly important when supporting children with SEND.

    My experience supporting SEND learners

    SEND is a particularly important part of my work.

    For more than fourteen years, I have supported children and young people with a wide range of educational needs, abilities and learning styles. My experience includes working with learners with ADHD, dyslexia, dyscalculia and autism, as well as children experiencing executive functioning difficulties, low confidence and anxiety around learning.

    I am very proud to describe myself as a SEND-experienced tutor.

    This isn’t simply because I have experience working with children who have additional needs. It is because understanding the individual learner is at the heart of the way I teach.

    I am also neurodivergent myself.

    I wasn’t diagnosed with ADHD until I was 31, and looking back at my own education, I can now see many things very differently. I loved learning and was academically capable, but there were aspects of education which were much harder for me than they appeared from the outside.

    My own experience has made me particularly aware of how easily children can be misunderstood.

    ADHD does not look the same in every person. Dyslexia does not affect every learner in exactly the same way. Autistic children are not all going to benefit from identical approaches. And a child with dyscalculia may have a completely different experience of mathematics from another child.

    There is no single “SEND learner”.

    My own ADHD journey taught me that very clearly. As I have written previously, my ADHD is not your ADHD and your ADHD is not mine. We all experience neurodivergence differently.

    That philosophy is incredibly important in my tutoring.

    I don’t want to see a diagnosis and immediately decide how a child should be taught.

    I want to get to know the child.

    A teenager I have supported for many years

    One of the most rewarding parts of tutoring is seeing how a child develops over time.

    I have been tutoring one particular teenager for a number of years, and it has been wonderful to watch her educational journey develop and change as she has grown.

    We are now working together on Functional Skills English and Functional Skills Maths, which is a very different stage from where we began.

    I think this is a lovely example of why personalised tuition can be so valuable.

    Education isn’t always about following a predetermined route simply because that is what everyone else is doing.

    Sometimes we need to step back and ask:

    What does this young person actually need now?

    For this student, Functional Skills provides an important opportunity to develop practical English and maths skills which are relevant to her future. Because I have worked with her for so long, I understand her strengths, the areas she finds more difficult and the approaches which help her engage.

    That relationship matters.

    Good tuition isn’t simply about knowing the curriculum.

    It is about knowing the learner.

    Building the British Curriculum around the child

    For families choosing home education, the British Curriculum can provide a useful framework.

    It gives parents some reassurance about the knowledge and skills children are expected to develop, particularly in core subjects such as English and mathematics.

    But a framework doesn’t have to become a cage.

    One child may need additional time to develop reading comprehension. Another may need to revisit mathematical concepts several times before they become secure.

    A dyslexic learner may benefit from multi-sensory approaches to reading, spelling and writing.

    A child with dyscalculia may need practical and visual ways of understanding number.

    An ADHD learner might benefit from shorter activities, movement, variety and clear structure.

    An autistic learner may need predictable routines and carefully considered communication.

    None of these things mean that a child is incapable of following the British Curriculum.

    They simply mean that they may need a different route through it.

    This is one of the greatest advantages of personalised home education.

    English and maths are about much more than worksheets

    English and maths are often the subjects parents feel most concerned about when they begin home educating.

    With English, we might work on reading, comprehension, spelling, vocabulary, grammar, punctuation, creative writing or communication.

    With maths, we might focus on number, calculation, reasoning, problem-solving, fractions, percentages or practical mathematics.

    But underneath all of this is confidence.

    I have seen children who are perfectly capable of learning begin to believe that they are “bad at English” or “just can’t do maths” because previous experiences have knocked their confidence.

    This can be particularly painful for children with SEND.

    A child who has spent years being told to concentrate harder, stop making careless mistakes or simply try harder can eventually start believing that they are the problem.

    They aren’t.

    Sometimes the teaching approach simply hasn’t matched the learner.

    Learning through interests

    One of the things I have particularly enjoyed over the years is using children’s interests to make learning engaging.

    I have supported a number of home-educated students, and no two have ever been exactly alike.

    Their interests become doorways into learning.

    A love of animals can lead into research and writing.

    An interest in space can become a wonderful opportunity for reading, vocabulary and scientific discussion.

    Sport can provide endless opportunities for maths.

    History can inspire creative writing.

    Art can support descriptive language.

    Even seemingly niche interests can become incredibly useful starting points for education.

    I don’t believe that every lesson needs to be entertaining every second. Children still need to experience challenge, practise skills and sometimes persevere with things they don’t immediately enjoy.

    But motivation matters.

    When a child understands why they are doing something and can connect it to something they already care about, learning can feel completely different.

    Colourful educational infographic showing how children’s interests in animals, space, sport, history and art can be used to make learning engaging and motivating.

    Home education can be particularly valuable for SEND learners

    For some families, home education provides something that traditional schooling simply hasn’t been able to offer: time.

    Time to slow down.

    Time to revisit something.

    Time to ask another question.

    Time to approach a concept differently.

    Time to celebrate progress without constantly comparing a child with thirty other children in the same classroom.

    This can be particularly valuable for neurodivergent learners.

    Children with ADHD, dyslexia, dyscalculia and autism can sometimes spend an enormous amount of energy navigating environments that weren’t designed with their needs in mind.

    Home education doesn’t automatically solve every difficulty, of course. Parents can still find themselves exhausted, uncertain or unsure about how best to support their child’s learning.

    That is where specialist tuition can become a useful part of the wider home education picture.

    The tutor doesn’t replace the parent.

    Instead, they can provide subject expertise, structure, encouragement and a different perspective.

    Looking towards September

    As September approaches, I know many home-educating families will be thinking carefully about the year ahead.

    For some children, that may mean continuing with the British Curriculum.

    For others, it may mean strengthening English and maths, preparing for Functional Skills, developing confidence or creating a more consistent learning routine.

    For children with SEND, finding the right support can be particularly important.

    Perhaps your child has struggled with school and needs an education that feels calmer and more individual.

    Perhaps they are academically capable but have lost confidence.

    Perhaps they have ADHD and need learning to be more flexible and engaging.

    Perhaps dyslexia has made reading and writing exhausting.

    Perhaps maths has become a source of anxiety because of dyscalculia.

    Or perhaps your child is simply wonderfully individual and you want their education to reflect that.

    Whatever the reason, I believe home education should give children the opportunity to learn in a way that recognises who they are.

    Not every child needs the same timetable.

    Not every child needs the same resources.

    And not every child will make progress in exactly the same way.

    What they do need is someone who understands learning, understands SEND and is prepared to meet them where they are.

    Personalised tuition that grows with the child

    For me, that is what personalised tuition is really about.

    It isn’t about taking a child and trying to squeeze them into a pre-existing programme.

    It is about looking at the learner in front of me and asking:

    Where are they now?

    Where would they like to go?

    And what will help them get there?

    After many years of supporting home-educated learners, I have seen just how powerful this approach can be.

    Sometimes progress is a qualification.

    Sometimes it is finally understanding a mathematical concept that has caused difficulty for years.

    Sometimes it is writing a paragraph independently.

    Sometimes it is reading aloud without that familiar feeling of dread.

    And sometimes it is simply a child finishing a lesson and saying:

    “That wasn’t as difficult as I thought.”

    Those moments matter enormously.


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  • ADHD and Executive Function: Simple Strategies That Help Children Thrive

    If your child has ADHD, you have probably experienced moments that leave you scratching your head.

    They can explain a maths concept brilliantly one minute, then completely forget what they were supposed to do the next. They may start tidying their bedroom, become distracted by a toy they haven’t seen for weeks, and somehow end up building a Lego model instead. They might listen carefully to your instructions, yet still return five minutes later asking, “What was I meant to do again?”

    To many parents, it can look as though their child isn’t concentrating or simply isn’t trying.

    In reality, these are often signs of difficulties with executive functioning.

    Executive function is sometimes described as the brain’s management system. It helps us plan, organise, remember instructions, manage our time, regulate our emotions and complete tasks. For many children with ADHD, these skills develop differently, making everyday activities far more challenging than they appear from the outside.

    The good news is that, with the right support, children with ADHD can absolutely thrive.

    What Is Executive Function?

    Executive function isn’t one single skill. Instead, it is a collection of mental processes that help us manage daily life.

    These include:

    • Working memory
    • Organisation
    • Planning
    • Time management
    • Flexible thinking
    • Emotional regulation
    • Task initiation
    • Sustaining attention

    Many people assume ADHD is simply about paying attention, but it is often more accurate to think of it as a difficulty managing attention alongside these executive functioning skills.

    As someone diagnosed with ADHD myself, I know first-hand that these challenges are not a reflection of intelligence. In fact, many children with ADHD are incredibly bright, creative and curious. The difficulty often lies in organising their thoughts, remembering multiple pieces of information and deciding where to begin.

    Every ADHD brain is different, and one strategy will never suit every child. That is something I have written about previously, and it remains one of the most important things parents can understand.

    Working Memory: The Invisible Challenge

    One of the biggest difficulties I see in children with ADHD is working memory.

    Working memory is like the brain’s temporary notepad. It allows us to hold information in our minds whilst using it.

    Imagine asking your child to:

    • Collect their maths book.
    • Open it to page 24.
    • Find a pencil.
    • Write today’s date.
    • Complete questions 1–5.

    For many children, those five instructions are manageable.

    For a child with ADHD, however, by the time they have found their maths book, they may already have forgotten the remaining four steps.

    This isn’t because they weren’t listening.

    Their brain has simply become overloaded.

    Reducing the amount of information children need to hold in their minds allows them to focus far more of their energy on the learning itself.

    The Power of Visual Learning

    One of the boys I currently tutor online in Dubai demonstrates this beautifully.

    Like many children with ADHD, he is bright, inquisitive and eager to learn. However, if information is presented as lengthy verbal explanations or large blocks of text, he can quickly become overwhelmed.

    Over time, we discovered something that transformed his confidence.

    He is an incredibly visual learner.

    Rather than relying on long explanations, we now use colourful diagrams, pictorial examples and carefully colour-coded notes throughout our online lessons.

    Different grammatical features are highlighted using different colours. Mathematical methods are organised visually so each stage is easy to follow. Important information is grouped together using diagrams rather than lengthy written instructions.

    Instead of expecting him to remember every stage of a task, each step remains visible on the screen throughout the lesson.

    The difference has been remarkable.

    Tasks that once felt overwhelming have become manageable because he no longer has to rely entirely on his working memory. He can simply follow each visual step in turn, allowing him to think more clearly and work far more confidently.

    It is a wonderful reminder that online learning is not simply “school on a screen.” For some children, it can actually remove many of the barriers they experience in a busy classroom.

    Breaking Learning Into Small Steps

    This is a strategy I use with many of the children I teach, both online and in person.

    Rather than giving several instructions all at once, I break activities into small, achievable stages.

    For example, instead of saying:

    “Read the text, answer the questions, underline the verbs and correct your spellings.”

    We might work through the task like this:

    Step 1: Read the first paragraph.

    Step 2: Highlight unfamiliar words in yellow.

    Step 3: Answer Question 1.

    Step 4: Tick it off.

    Only then do we move on to the next stage.

    By reducing the number of decisions children need to make at once, learning becomes far less overwhelming.

    Colour Coding Creates Clarity

    One of the simplest but most effective strategies I use is colour coding.

    Children with ADHD are often trying to process huge amounts of information simultaneously. Colour provides clear visual anchors that help organise that information.

    For example, during English lessons we might:

    In maths, different colours can separate each stage of a calculation or distinguish between known information and what we need to work out.

    Suddenly, the page no longer looks like one overwhelming wall of writing.

    Instead, it becomes organised, structured and much easier to navigate.

    Many children begin spotting patterns almost immediately because the colours provide an additional layer of meaning.

    Building Confidence Through Structure

    One thing I’ve learnt over many years of tutoring is that children rarely lack ability.

    More often, they lack a system that works for their brain.

    Clear routines, visual prompts, checklists and predictable lesson structures reduce the mental effort needed simply to stay organised.

    That frees up valuable brainpower for learning.

    When children know exactly what comes next, anxiety often decreases and confidence begins to grow.

    I regularly see children who initially describe themselves as “bad at maths” or “not very good at English” begin tackling increasingly difficult work once they are given the right structure.

    The learning hasn’t become easier.

    It has simply become clearer.

    Small Changes Can Make a Big Difference

    Parents sometimes worry they need expensive resources or specialist equipment to support executive functioning.

    In reality, many of the most effective strategies are wonderfully simple.

    Writing checklists.

    Breaking tasks into smaller chunks.

    Using coloured highlighters.

    Keeping instructions short.

    Allowing children to tick off completed steps.

    Using pictures alongside words.

    These approaches don’t lower expectations.

    They simply provide the scaffolding children need to demonstrate what they already know.

    Final Thoughts

    Children with ADHD are not disorganised because they are lazy.

    They are often working far harder than other children simply to organise their thoughts, remember instructions and stay focused on the task in front of them.

    When we understand executive functioning, we stop asking, “Why won’t they do it?” and start asking, “What support would help them succeed?”

    Sometimes that support is as simple as a colourful diagram, a clear checklist or breaking one large task into several smaller ones.

    When we adapt learning to suit the child, rather than expecting the child to adapt to one fixed way of learning, remarkable things can happen.


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    Whether you’re exploring tuition options, looking for specialist support or simply have a question, we’d love to hear from you. Tell us a little about your child and what you’re looking for, and we’ll be in touch as soon as possible.


    Current Availability

    Super Summer Learning (August): Good availability throughout the holiday

    Weekday daytime tuition (from September): Good availability for international students, home-educated learners and families with flexible schedules

    🗓️ After-school, Saturday & Sunday morning tuition (from September): Waiting list currently in operation


    Please include Area Code if Outside UK

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